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35 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 15, 2014
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I've lived in the City for 3 years now after growing up in DC and living in Chicago for a while. I live in Park Slope / Gowanus.

I went back to school for an MBA and now I work for NYC as a City Planner. I work on everything from new universities to hospitals to affordable housing. Love my job.

Outside of the job I have lots of different interests: Music, politics/news, sports, travel, the outdoors (hiking, camping, bonfires) and fixing things (jobs that require wrenches and hammers). And I don't think I've ever said no to going to a museum, gallery or performance.

I'm easy going and sensitive sometimes to a fault.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job. (I work pretty hard.) But I'm also very good at unplugging and putting my feet up. Ebbs and flows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like alt rock, hiphop, r&b, jazz, blues... pretty much anything actually. I also play the guitar and do a little singing/songwriting. I enjoy it and nobody has told me I'm horrible but I can't imagine I'll be making a career out of it anytime soon.

My favorite band is Wilco. Lately I've been listening to the Kills, Black Keys, St. Vincent, Passion Pit, Foster the People, Fiona Apple.

Books... I just finished reading a bio on Robert Moses called the Power Broker... Woo hoo!!!! It was 1,100 pages of tiny type that took me far far too long to finish. I also love fiction... huge fan of Vonnegut (Cat's Cradle is my favorite) and Sedaris. And I always seem to be re-reading the Lord of the Rings on my phone.

Movie-wise I like almost everything but horror or scary flicks. They just don't do it for me. I dig pretty much anything by Wes Anderson.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends and family friends
The ocean for fishing, swimming and shark week
The beach
Red meat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try to avoid thinking. It leads to trouble.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Blowing off steam.... Sometimes at home when I rally and actually use my kitchen for cooking. Or out with friends somewhere making fools of ourselves.
You should message me if
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If you equate bisexuality with confusion or believe it's a transitory state, I don't want to be harsh but... please move along. I know who I am and I am not of the opinion that this disqualifies me from having a long term relationship.

I'm looking for someone who is mature - who has been around the block. And I'm a little quirky so it'd be good if you were a little unconventional too.