cbnarberth
51 Narberth, PA
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My self-summary
I am a single father with primary custody of two witty, talented, too sophisticated mixed race kids who come first in all things. They visit their mother every other weekend, and I can be available for the occasional weeknight date.

I am not your typical guy:

I enjoy being intellectually driven but can have fun working out, swimming, rafting, hiking, snorkeling, or walking through the city. I enjoy theater, movies (action, historical drama, science fiction, foreign), some musicals, hosting dinners, trying new restaurants, conversations with friends long into the night, and trips into the city or countryside.

I am easy going with partners as I like to see the world through their eyes as well as mine own. Also I enjoy listening to others and getting their input. SORRY OLD FASHIONED, I PREFER TO PAY FOR DATES.

I am politically left wing : I am pro-choice (was Secretary of NARAL-PA in the 99's), pro-Gay rights, and value public school teachers. I was into the slow foods movement before it was a darling of the media, I am an excellent cook and AND I LOVE TO COOK sushi is the closest I come to fast food.

I approach the Philadelphia Fringe Festival and theater season the way most men approach the Superbowl, my kids and I go to the Pennsylvania Renaissance Fair at least once every year. I hate snowy places for vacations and would rather snorkel with my kids in St. Thomas than have a free trip to Disney world. I like picnics, walks outside, but not camping, I might try glamping if luxurious enough.

I AM LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WHO is smart sophisticated, enjoys learning about things, is unashamed of open physical affection, quirky, and treasures their uniqueness. Also very proud of how brilliant they are!!! Smart is very sexy to me. She is not a fashion maven but likes to look presentable and can dress up. She should not be intimidated by my intellect or intensity and is ready to engage it. I want someone who likes to go to plays, out to dinner, and occasionally see a movie.

Honesty, and intellect, are important, but a weird side is nice as well. I like food and so should they.

Vegans need not apply.

If you feel the need to assert how Christian you are or how godly in your essay, then I am not the guy for you. Trust me.

NO OFFENSE, FORGIVE IF THE FOLLOWING SEEMS ARROGANT I AM USING CAPS CAUSE THESE ARE IMPORTANT:

I HATE: WATCHING ANY SPORTS, TYLER PERRY, CHITLIN CIRCIUT PLAYS, BARS, LOUIS FERAKAHN, CONSERVATIVES BLACK OR WHITE!

NOR WILL I GOLF, BOWL, DO BASEBALL, RUN/JOG, LISTEN TO GOSPEL MUSIC.

SORRY, BUT I AM VERY ALLERGIC TO CATS.

DATING
First meet, I prefer a coffee shop, or pastry shop. Its low pressure for both of us and we can talk. I do not like to call that a date because its just a get to know you.

First dates I prefer going out to dinner so we can talk more.

I answered over 2000 questions, so if we rate a high percent there might be a reason.

Please return my email, even with a thanks, but no thanks, if I email you.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it and watching my kids grow. I am a union organizer and I do it because it is fulfilling and it lets spend more time wth my kids. I will only get this brief time to enjoy them as kids and I want to treasure it.
I’m really good at
Wow....so many things, lol, just joking, cooking, conversation, political forecasting, deconstructing stories, following world events, listening, diplomacy, inspiring friends and family.
The first things people usually notice about me
I do not fit any stereotype. I am charming and a conversationalist. Next is my buoyant personality and sophistication. People like to walk up to me and talk to me and I get along with all types.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy science fiction and have read a ridiculous amount of novels.
Movies: 1970's versions of Jesus Christ Superstar, the Lathe of Heaven, and Three Musketeers. Also Bladerunner, most Akira Kirasowa films, foreign films.

TV: ( I have a DVR don't be intimidated) Dr Who and too many BBC TV series to mention here, Supernatural, CSI, Luther, Torchwood, Person of Interest, Elementary, Sherlock!, Big Bang Theory, The Flash, Agents of Shield, Gotham, Defiance, Citizen Z, Walking Dead, Last Ship, Turn, 2 Broke Girls, Falling Skies, NCIS & NCIS:LA, GOT.

Food: I like to try all foods, but fast food or most chains. I cook to relax and I enjoy cooking with friends.

Comedians: Patton Oswalt#1, Rita Rudner, Kathy Griffin, Sarah Millican, Mike Birbigila, Chris Rock, Daniel Tosh, sometimes Amy Schumer, sometimes Kevin Hart.

Music: I can find enjoyment in all music and it really depends on my mood.

Favorite NPR shows are This American Life, Fresh Air, Wait Wait, Radio Lab, Snapjudgement, and On the media.

Favorite pod cast "Welcome to Night Vale".
The six things I could never do without
Kids
NPR/BBC
Good food
Culture
Friends
Reading material
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Local, national and world politics, my place in life, and how I am doing as a parent. Political activism and how I can impact regionally and nationally. Parent stuff i.e. what I am making for dinner from scratch, laundry, school projects, schedules.
Why every time I find someone with a high compatibility AND likes reading science fiction they have cats.
On a typical Friday night I am
Taking it easy. Watching TV with kids, reading on my kindle, or having friends over for dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know the chorus to the Kim Possible theme song and the theme to Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego is on my mp3.
You should message me if
If you are self confident, don't care what others think, enjoy laughing and can take things slow. Also at least one date on here has turned into a great friendship, I would not mind more of those either.

You like my profile and are looking for a fun relationship with a solid man who's is confident enough to admit when he's wrong, enjoys your opinion, and will find your genius sexy. I am not looking for penpals or email games.

If I contact you please reply even if it is a no.
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