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44 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Black, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My pictures are a true/actual representation of my present self. I consider myself a pretty no nonsense person. I'm not looking for a FWB or a NSA arrangement. My aim is to find a long term relationship. I want to date someone who lives near me; proximity is important. I don't want to wait more than an hour to see my special someone. And I want to see my special someone more than once a week. If you can't spare any time for me on the weekends, or you're not available until after 10pm, keep on moving. I'm not falling for anymore HIT AND RUNS! And for those men who live outside of the Bay Area, outside of California, outside of the U.S., and believe it or not, outside of the Western hemisphere: thanks for the messages, but I'm not interested. I'm not open to long distance relationships, and I won't engage in video chats. I've come to learn that you're usually after cyber sex (online video chats where you take off your clothes and try to get me out of mine). Some men may be satisfied with that type of interaction, but I'm not. If I can't reach out and touch you, THEN WHAT'S THE POINT! I won't be satisfied. And yes, I'm looking for satisfaction! My summary follows.

I'm not shy. I'm quiet when first observing something, then grow bolder and sassy when I'm comfortable. I'm even tempered, generally polite and considerate in nature. But I can't say I'm sweet. I'm also not sour, rough, or harsh; I'm direct. I'm definitely opinionated, but that is based on observation and life experience. It's never my intention to hurt anyone; I'll apologize if I injure someone. I'm sincere; A person's actions should match up with their words. I value good communication and good manners. I'm reliable; I have a low tolerance for "fake/flakey" individuals. I value my time, and I won't waste yours. SO IF YOU'VE MESSAGED ME AND DON'T HEAR BACK, BE AT PEACE WITH IT. Personality wise, I'm a happy person who rarely feels down. I laugh a lot and play well with others. I believe in fair play, so I follow the rules. I lead a normal, quiet life. And I won't allow others to bring chaos into my life. I know life can be filled with disappointment, so I take things in stride. I seldom throw a tantrum. But if I feel wronged, I'll let you know. If I'm knocked down, I get right back up. I usually root for the underdog; I'm thrilled when David bests Goliath. This world is filled with so many different types of people and personalities. I respect the difficulty of finding a match. Mutual attraction, intrigue, admiration, and common interests aren't easy to find. I hope someone out there fits my bill, and I his. If you're looking for someone sweet, quiet, and meek, I'm not her. If your looking for someone strong, sexy, passionate, capable, quick witted with a sarcastic edge (not mean spirited), you may have found her. I believe in being good to everyone in general, and wonderful to those that are special to me in particular. But I'm no doormat. For those men out there that are looking for a woman who doesn't take herself too seriously, my response is:" if I don't take myself seriously, you won't take me seriously." Believe it or not, I'm not uptight. I just haven't lost my dignity. And I'm tired of men taking my kindness for a weakness. I'm no sucker. It takes all kinds to make the world go round. At times I can be spontaneous and whimsical; but don't get it twisted. Work goes before fun. I work hard. On my off time, I want to enjoy myself. That means I don't want to waste my time with individuals who won't make or commit to plans; it's plain to see if someone has no follow through. There is a funny, sexy, lighter side to me for my friends and family. In posting this ad, I hope to find a happy, strong, smart, funny, confident man with whom I can relax, let loose, and share my free time. Finally, I fall somewhere between girly and sporty. I like to get dressed up, but I'm not afraid to get dirty...unless I'm dressed up :).
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a health care professional. On my off time I spend time with friends and family. I've recently started traveling again. My plan is to visit one U.S. city and one city abroad every year.
I’m really good at
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Salsa dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
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I hope it's my large eyes or my complexion; but I have a funny feeling it's my chest :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:mystery and suspense, satire, romance; Movies:comedies, action/adventure, romance & romantic comedies; Food: I'm open to all types of food. My favorite food is Mexican. Music: I enjoy a variety of music (top 40, R&B, soul, country, jazz, world beat, latin music).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee pot
washing machine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...why this whole dating game has to be such a game! Online dating is like hide and go seek or tag? You see the players, they tag you with messages, and off they go hide.

Where are the men who want to do more than sit on a coach and watch a movie or play a video game? Where are the men who want to go out and show a woman a good time apart from sex? Where are the men who value a woman for more than her sex organs?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not working, I'm usually at home. My party night is Sunday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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OKAY, OKAY, OKAY! We all have our preferences.... (1) I'm attracted to men with black, brown, and olive toned complexions. To the men who don't fall into that category, take no offense. I'm just hardwired that way; "I like men tall, dark, and buff!" I like a hard body for my soft body. (2) I have a thing for a man that has a strong, prominent jaw line (distinct jaw/neckline definition). (3) to the young men out there: I like a man with a nice butt and strong legs. I hate the site of a man sagging in his pants.
You should message me if
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your truly single (NOT MARRIED, and misunderstood, or SEPARATED, and no where near divorced), tall, black, brown, or olive complexion (yah, I know, "You've got to be kidding, right!!!...well.....I like what I like!), in my desired age range (I'm not a COUGAR), good looking, sane, law abiding, responsible and respectful towards everyone, a non smoker, and non drug user. Also, FOR THOSE MEN LOOKING FOR DISCRETE ENCOUNTERS: I'm no one's dirty little secret. If you can't be seen with me in public, I won't be seeing you in private.

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