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43 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:25pm
Black, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My pictures are a true/actual representation of my present self. I consider myself a pretty no nonsense person. I'm not looking for a FWB. My aim is to find a long term relationship. I want to date someone who lives near me. I believe proximity is important. I don't want to wait more than an hour to see my special someone. And I want to see my special someone more than once a week. If you can't spare any time for me on the weekends, or you're not available until after 10pm, keep on moving. I'm not falling for anymore HIT AND RUNS! For those who live outside of the Bay Area, out of state, out of the country, and believe it or not, outside of the Western hemisphere, thanks for the messages; but I'm not interested. I'm not open to long distance relationships, and I won't engage in video chats. I've come to learn that you're usually after cyber sex (online video chats where you take off your clothes and try to get me out of mine). Some men may be satisfied with that type of interaction, but I'm not. If I can't reach out and touch you, THEN WHAT'S THE POINT! I won't be satisfied. And yes, I'm looking for satisfaction! My summary follows.

I'm not shy. I'm quiet when first observing something, then grow bolder and sassy when I'm comfortable. I'm even tempered, generally polite and considerate in nature. But I can't say I'm sweet. I'm also not sour, rough, or harsh; I'm direct. I'm definitely opinionated, but that is based on observation and life experience. It's never my intention to hurt anyone; I'll apologize if I injure someone. I'm sincere; there's no false face here. A person's actions should match up with their words. I value good communication and good manners. I'm reliable; I have a low tolerance for "fake/flakey" individuals. I value my time, and I won't waste yours. SO IF YOU DON'T HEAR BACK FROM ME, BE AT PEACE WITH IT. Personality wise, I'm a happy person who rarely feel down. I laugh a lot and play well with others. I follow the rules and believe in fair play. There is no drama in my life because I'm not having it! I know life can be filled with disappointment, so I take things in stride. I seldom throw a tantrum. But if I feel wronged, I'll let you know. If I'm knocked down, I get right back up. I usually root for the underdog; I'm thrilled when David bests Goliath. This world is filled with so many different types of people and personalities. I respect the difficulty of finding a match. Mutual attraction, intrigue, admiration, and common interests aren't easy to find. I hope someone out there fits my bill, and I his. If you're looking for someone sweet, quiet, and meek, I'm not her. If your looking for someone strong, sexy, passionate, capable, quick witted with a sarcastic edge (not mean spirited), you may have found her. I believe in being good to everyone in general, and wonderful to those that are special to me in particular. But I'm no doormat. For those men out there that are looking for a woman who doesn't take herself too seriously, my response is:" if I don't take myself seriously, you won't take me seriously." Believe it or not, I'm not uptight. I just haven't lost my dignity. It takes all kinds to make the world go round. At times I can be spontaneous and whimsical; but don't get it twisted. Work goes before fun. I work hard. On my off time, I want to enjoy myself. That means I don't want to waste my time with individuals who won't commit to plans or have no follow through. There is a funny, sexy, lighter side to me for my friends and family. In posting this ad, I hope to find a happy, strong, smart, funny, confident man with whom I can relax, let loose, and share my free time. Finally, I fall somewhere between girly and sporty. I like to get dressed up, but I'm not afraid to get dirty...unless I'm dressed up :).
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a health care professional. On my off time I spend time with friends and family. I've recently started traveling again. My plan is to visit one U.S. city and one city abroad every year.
I’m really good at
Salsa dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
I hope it's my large eyes or my complexion; but I have a funny feeling it's my chest :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:mystery and suspense, satire, romance; Movies:comedies, action/adventure, romance & romantic comedies; Food: I'm open to all types of food. My favorite food is Mexican. Music: I enjoy a variety of music (top 40, R&B, soul, country, jazz, world beat, latin music).
The six things I could never do without
coffee pot
washing machine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why you men ask a total stranger, "how's your weekend?" That's a question for someone you know. What happened to introducing ones self prior to engaging in meaningless chitchat?

...why you gentlemen bother to send me messages only to hide your profiles immediately after pushing send. Is it writer's regret? Did you send me a message after looking at my pics? Did you read my profile after you pushed send? If you've changed your mind about contacting me, have the "COJONES" to say so in a follow up message. Disappearing before I can even read your profile is lame! But if that's your nature, STAY HIDDEN!
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm not working, I'm usually at home. My party night is Sunday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
OKAY, OKAY, OKAY! We all have our preferences.... (1) I'm attracted to men with black, brown, and olive toned skin primarily. To the men who don't fall into that category, take no offense. I'm just hardwired that way; "I like men tall, dark, and buff!" I like a hard body for my soft body. (2) I have a thing for a man that has a strong, prominent jaw line (distinct jaw/neckline definition). I don't like a jaw line to melts into a neck, and that goes for double chins. (3) I like a man with a nice butt and strong legs. Men are always obsessed about their arm or chest, but neglect their legs and glutes. I'm a woman that admires a man's fine assets. I hate the site of a man sagging in his pants. Now, so as not to waste anyones time, I will also admit that I won't get back to anyone who: doesn't live in the Bay Area, doesn't have a face/picture, or is wearing sunglasses and or a hat in all of his pictures. If I can't really tell what you look like, I won't be getting back to you. If your profile picture is of you shirtless, and your not at the pool or the beach, you've made a bad impression. Also, I won't respond to anyone if the self summary is blank or the details portion is blank or near blank. If you can't be bothered, then neither can I.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
your truly single (not married or separated), tall, black, brown, or olive complexion (yah, I know, "You've got to be kidding, right!!!...well.....I like what I like!), in my desired age range (I'm not a COUGAR), good looking, sane, responsible and respectful towards everyone, a non smoker, and non drug user (and that includes weed...."I can't stand the smell!...and no matter what you do, I'll still smell it...and gag!). Also, FOR THOSE MEN LOOKING FOR DISCRETE ENCOUNTERS: I'm no one's dirty little secret. If you can't be seen with me in public, I won't be seeing you in private.