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46 Yokosuka, Japan Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 27, 2013
Asian, Black, Other
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Dropped out of Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Born in the Caribbean; raised in England and Canada. Spent some pretty wild years in New York City. Got married and moved to Japan. Got divorced and stayed in Japan. Quirky sense of humour; independent. Love single malt scotch, red wine and Belgian beer. Have a lot of books -- and hope to write one someday...
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently in transition. Considering (but not yet committed to) leaving Japan this summer. Possible destinations: China, Europe, Canada.
I’m really good at
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making up alternative irreverent lyrics to karaoke songs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big, almond-shaped eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Like books and short stories by Haruki Murakami, Flannery O'Connor, Dorothy Parker, David Sedaris, Will Self, Mary Gaitskill, A.M. Holmes, Jessica Mitford, J.G. Ballard. Also like science fiction/fantasy and memoir.
Movies: Like dramas, science fiction and fantasy, and action films. Preference for somewhat dark/twisted/quirky films (American Psycho, Requiem for a Dream, Donnie Darko) but also enjoy whacked out comedy (Borat, Raising Arizona).
Directors: Tarantino, Jim Jarmusch, Guy Ritchie, Wong Kar Wai, Miyazaki Hayao, Akira Kurosawa
Music: from jazz to punk
Food: Thai, Indian, Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Caribbean
The six things I could never do without
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family, friends, books, music, travel, nature
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1. I've never had a driver's license but fantasize about getting a motorcycle.
2. I don't understand or have much in common with most women I meet, which makes me simultaneously sad and relieved.
3. I've seen Scarface about 30 times!
4. I think Louis Vuitton and most other branded crap is tacky as hell and I don't like diamonds -- unless it's just a big, raw unpolished hunk of rock that I can use as a paperweight.
You should message me if
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a woman who is intelligent, independent, but doesn't know how to use an eye lash curler (torture device) thingie doesn't make you crap your pants.