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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 11, 2014
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
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Hello and welcome to your introduction to me! I think this is the part where I tell you a few things about myself and what I am looking for. Let's see...

I am a programmer by trade but don't let that get in the way ;-). Unlike many of my fellow coders, I am quite social and enjoy the company of others. I love adventures. There is nothing quite as fun as exploring an abandoned building in an urban environ. I am curious about EVERYTHING. I am constantly learning. I enjoy meeting new people and then getting to know them. I have been told I have a big heart. I have very blue eyes (that I'm told are quite dreamy). I am not athletic but I do work out regularly and pitch in a softball league to try and stay healthy and fit. I know quite a bit of local San Francisco history and can regale you with tales of past and show you where those tales took place. I am an officer at the San Francisco Elks Lodge #3 (it's not just for old people anymore!) I tend to use too many exclamation points when I txt or IM people! I've been known to sing karaoke on occasion. I don't like raw onions in my food (cooked onions are just fine).

Wow. What an awesome self-summary, right?
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work a full-time day job as a software architect / engineer. I am also the founder and CEO of my own profitable startup, Simple Software, Inc. As I mentioned in my summary, I am an officer at the San Francisco Elks Lodge and volunteer my time helping veterans, underprivileged children and other charitable causes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at reading other people. At picking just the right wine for a particular meal. I am good at keeping other people motivated and helping them reach the next level. I am good at cooking. I mean I really like to cook. And my meals are delicious. I am good at thinking of others, probably to a fault. I am good at acknowledging my weaknesses and leveraging my strengths. I seem to be pretty lucky and tend to win games, find parking, get jobs, and find money quite a bit ([knock on wood] Thank you Luck Gods!). I am a pretty good singer (with a good range too!) and enjoy singing karaoke, especially after a whiskey or two.

I've been told I'm a good kisser. I am a better lover than a fighter. I am too smart for my own good. I am pretty clever and love to figure things out. I'm not very good at getting my profile up to 1000 words. That's a lot of words!
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am almost always wearing a great big smile, bright blue eyes and how smart and handsome I am (or at least that's what my Mom always told me ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to go to live plays, musicals, symphonies or bands. There is just something that touches your soul when you see some people perform right in front of you. I really like going out and listening to local bands.

Not so long ago, my days had lots of extra time in them and I would get a lot of recreational reading done. I could speed through a Grisham novel in a day or two. Now, my reading has been relegated to mostly research or learning associated with my job and/or startup.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I could never do without would be:
1. Burritos
2. My computer
3. My internet connection
4. My mind
5. My sense of humor
6. The love of a beautiful woman [awww, I made myself sad :-(]
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I've been spending a lot of time thinking about how to ensure my financial independence by setting up a sales and marketing machine that earns money, even if I'm not there running my startup. If the processes, procedures, leads and culture are all setup, a company can execute without the need for me to be there on a daily basis. Who knows if that's possible but it doesn't hurt to dream!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having a good time. No matter what.

No, really!

Ok, really I'm either going out to a live show, catching up with friends over a beer or relaxing at home. I think it's fun to go weekend camping, leaving after work on Friday and setting up camp in the dark. I like a good challenge!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Clowns and spiders freak me out a little. Not individually, just when seen together. Weird.
You should message me if
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You'd like to grab some coffee or a drink, chat, or even take a walk!