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39 F Fairfax, VA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:59pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a divorced, professional woman with two young kids. I share custody with their father, but if you're not a fan of children, then it's a lost cause. I love to workout and am in the gym 4-5 times per week. I'm fit and healthy and like my men to be the same. Physical attraction is very important to me, and I'm attracted to guys who take care of themselves. I have a number of hobbies, so if you'd like to know more, please ask :)

I can't believe I have to add this to my profile...BUT, if you are married or otherwise involved in a relationship, I am NOT interested. AT ALL! Also, I get a lot of messages from guys in their 20's and early 30's...looking to hookup....again, NOT interested! I'm on this site to date...not hookup with random guys. Please don't waste your time...or clutter my inbox.

I'm looking to find a good, decent guy to date and hang out with. I don't want to put pressure on the situation. If something more develops, great. If not, that's ok too. I don't usually message a lot of guys on here, so if you're interested, send me a message :) However, I'm not looking to email/text for weeks on end. I believe the only way to know if you are attracted to/compatible with someone is to actually meet in person.

As indicated in my profile, I'm 5'7"...and that IS actually how tall I am....without heels. I've found that guys on this site "sometimes" exaggerate their height...why?? I don't know. If you actually meet in person, the truth will come out! With that being said, I tend to prefer guys on the taller end of the spectrum...just saying.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, taking care of my kids, and trying to find time to have some fun! I've been a federal employee for many years, and really enjoy my job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
my job, mixing the perfect dirty vodka martini, cooking, being a smart-ass :) My friends all tell me I can throw a pretty good party!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read A LOT!! I have many favorite authors...too many to list here. I rarely watch tv, and I prefer movies at home. I'm into all types of music, and I'm a pretty good cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my two boys
my family
designer jeans
sky high heels
dirty martinis
diet coke
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
if anyone really looks at the answers to these questions....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out on the town...or home with my kids...depends on the week!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I admitted it, it wouldn't be private...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you think we have something in common; you are in good physical shape; you don't have too much emotional baggage (we ALL have some); you don't want to email endlessly and would actually like to meet in person; and you think we'd have fun!