What can I say, I love to cook (it relaxes me), I like the outdoors (walking my rescued puppy), I'm also a spiritual person. As for music I love underground hiphop (Foreign Exchange, Mos Def, Common)and non mainstream + old r&b (Musiq, Jill,Debarge, Atlantic Starr, Turquoise Jeep, Roy Ayers, Bebel Gilberto, Bobby Caldwell). Just started the Insanity workout (pray for me). As for goals and aspirations I want to continue to move career ambitiously in the right direction. As for a relationship, right now I want to date but I'm open to having a friendship that could lead to a relationship only if it occurs naturally.
I've been debating on whether to be generic or really say what I want on this site. Let me start by saying I would never ask a woman for more than I'm willing to give. I've had good and bad experiences like anyone else and those experiences have helped shape what I want and don't want.
In a woman I value someone whose humble (confidence is not the opposite of humility) and attractive (inside just as much as outside). I'm just looking to have some fun and let the chips fall where they may. Also I do not have a preference when it comes to hair texture or skin complexion as long as I find you attractive. If I do find you attractive I'll take you in whatever form (just waking up in the morning. I'm a realist and how you look in the morning is just as much you as when you're dolled up. I'm more interested in what's in you head as opposed to being obsessed with what's on top of it. I'm about you being you.
PS- I only have two pet peeves, flakiness and not doing what you say you will do