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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:51pm
Asian, White
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Buddhism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not very good at summarizing myself, so I'm going with what Urban Dictionary says about me according to my name. ;)

1. Someone who is worth waiting for.

2. He is intelligent, unique, hilarious, playful, sexy, lovable, crazy, fun, silly, great in bed, quick-witted, honest, loyal, handsome, and logical. The most amazing parties are thrown at his house. You're guaranteed to have a blast if you party with him.

3. A boy you'll want to keep around forever. He's intelligent, sweet, and funny. Motivated to get everything he can out of life (by god you better not stand in his way). With a smile to die for and eyes that can make you melt he's an ideal boyfriend, someone you'd do anything for.

4. The bestest friend you can have in the entire world. Always concerned about how others feel, and is very considerate in the fact that he makes them feel loved. Very silly, and loud. Often bursts into random song and dance. Not one person in the world hates him. Without him, the world would be lost.

>Suitable nicknames: Big_Hapa, KimchiCowboy, BanchanBoy
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating. Art directing. Designing. Consulting.

Working on getting back to photography, silk screening and playing percussion.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My tiger-like agility.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Medium as the Massage, Toa Te Ching, Siddhartha, The Tipping Point, Blink, Me Talk Pretty One Day, The Alchemist, Ishmael, Breakfast of Champions, A Light in the Attic, Where the Sidewalk Ends, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Illusions,

Movies: Bladerunner, The Good the bad & the Ugly, Big Trouble in Little China, The Goonies, Enter the Dragon, Old Boy, Amelie, Fifth Element, The Whackness, Ghostdog, Layercake, Bronson, The Dark Knight, Bottle Rocket, Rushmore

Music: Radiohead, The Stepkids, Connie Price and the Keystones, The Lions, Orgone, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Quantic, Jed and Lucia, Beats Antique, Mos Def, De La Soul, Common, The Roots, Camp Lo, Slum Village, J Dilla, Haiku D'état, Gza, Rza, The Foreign Exchange, Little Brother, Nicolay, Dj Spinna, Dj Drez, Dan the Automator, Prince Paul, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Black Roc, Tribe Called Quest, Jigmastas, Madvillian, Pharcyde, Prefuse 73, Underworld, Roots Manuva, Run DMC, Talib Kwali, 9th Wonder, The Black Keys, Fugazi, The Kills, Spoon, TV on the Radio, James Brown, Parliament, Funkadelic, Bootsy Collins, Aston Barrett, Black Uhuru, Burning Spear, Bob Marley and the Wailers, Peter Tosh, The Heptones, Hepcat, The Gladiators, Roots Radics, Dennis Bovell, Carlton & the Shoes, Bullwhackies All Stars, Buju Banton, Sizzla, Capleton, Fat Freddy's Drop, Horace Andy, Mayer Hawthorne, Kimbra, Fleet Foxes, Vetiver, Childish Gambino, Junior Boys, Minus the Bear, The Kills, Little Dragon, Maximum Balloon, DJ Shadow, Wu Tang, Jonti, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Sonny Rollins, Charles Mingus, Thelonious Monk, Pharoah Sanders, Stan Getz, Roy Haynes, Max Roach
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Communication. Environment. Diversity. Openness. Love. Thought.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With people I love. Hopefully checking out live performances with them.
You should message me if
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You're down to check out live performances, go to museums/galleries, go for a bike ride/walk or get a drink, or two.