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  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Oct 7
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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Bringing in the new year at a bonfire in the snow in rural Colorado. Programming a mobile game (for fun) at 2 AM. Visiting a Renaissance Festival in East Texas. Spending a Sunday afternoon hiking Mount Tam. Waiting those last few moments before watching an awesome new blockbuster at a local independent theater.

Random moments are one way to summarize a life so far, I suppose. Another way is to talk about traits:

I'm super open to new experiences -- I love visiting new places, listening to stories, hearing points of view different than my own.

I love the mountains. Skiing and hiking are my go-to weekend getaway activities.

I get excited about space, politics, movies, games, programming, design, stories, technology, philosophy, morality, psychology and .. a lot of things, really. I get excited about things. It might be a book or podcast or article or game I've just consumed, technology thing I've discovered, or new thing I'm working on.

I try to make people laugh. Like, all the time. I spend quite a bit of mental energy trying to make the people around me giggle.

Above everything else, I value honesty, kindness, and understanding. These are the most important things.
What I’m doing with my life
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> Programming! I work at a little startup.
> Weekend adventures! Hiking, exploring. Skiing in the wintertime.
> Relaxing! You know, because it's nice to just chill out and watch a movie.
> Projects! I'm always working on something.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
> Caring for other people; thinking empathically; putting myself in someone else's shoes
> Thinking creatively; coming up with new designs, new ideas, new ways of approaching things; dreaming up fictional worlds, people, stories
> Games; strategy; thinking three moves ahead
The first things people usually notice about me
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A strong nose, squarish glasses, brown hair, and an expression that oscillates between deep concentration and goofy exuberance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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> Scifi/fantasy like the Heir to the Empire (a.k.a., "Thrawn trilogy") by Timothy Zahn and The Name of the Wind by Pat Rothfuss. I have a special place in my heart for dystopian fiction, especially 1984 by George Orwell.
> Scientifically-oriented nonfiction like The Black Hole War by Leonard Susskind
> Books on ethics/philosophy like Moral Tribes: Emotion, Reason, and the Gap Between Us and Them by Joshua Greene
> Memoirs like Magical Thinking by Augusten Burroughs

> Sci-fi dramas that try and say something interesting about us as a species like Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica, and Black Mirror
> Dark, character-driven, plot-heavy epics like Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones and House of Cards
> Documentaries like Cosmos

3:10 to Yuma, A Man From Earth, The Dark Knight, A Single Man, Pacific Rim, Cloverfield and many more. Recent favorites include Frozen, Her, Edge of Tomorrow, and Interstellar.

Things that are edible. I tend to enjoy the context of food more than the food itself, to be honest.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
> People to care about
> Reason/Empiricism
> Freedom of travel
> Films/Books
> Computers
> Outdoor adventures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
> Ethics/Morality
> Global politics/news
> New projects
> Travel plans
> Programming-related things
> Orbital mechanics
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can be terribly impatient. Can't wait to get over that.
You should message me if
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> You have something in common! Wanna go skiing together? Perhaps play some board games? Go to a microbrewery of excellent IPAs?