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cdxy

28 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:26pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm rational and careful with beliefs. I break down problems, pull them apart, try to see what others miss. I'm empirical, thoughtful, and logical.

I'm curious. Documentaries, podcasts, books, and articles consume a rather large amount of my time. The universe is a wonderful place, and I can't seem to learn enough about it.

I tend to get restless. Both literally (I've never been good at falling asleep) and figuratively -- I tend to require some adventure. As an example -- moving across the country a few months ago from desolate Texas to this bay on the edge of the Pacific.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
> Programming! I work at a little startup, which is growing fast (though I wish it was growing faster).
> Various creative activities! Writing; fiction, short stories. Programming projects. Though alas, I've been on a bit of a break from this recently.
> Weekend adventures! Hiking, exploring. Skiing in the wintertime.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
> Caring for other people; thinking empathically; putting myself in someone else's shoes
> Thinking creatively; coming up with new designs, new ideas, new ways of approaching things; dreaming up fictional worlds, people, stories
> Games; strategy; thinking three moves ahead
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A strong nose, squarish glasses, soft brown hair with a couple small white patches, and an expression that oscillates between deep concentration and goofy exuberance.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books
> Scifi/fantasy like the Heir to the Empire (a.k.a., "Thrawn trilogy") by Timothy Zahn and The Name of the Wind by Pat Rothfuss. I have a special place in my heart for dystopian fiction, especially 1984 by George Orwell.
> Scientifically-oriented nonfiction like The Black Hole War by Leonard Susskind
> Books on ethics/philosophy like Moral Tribes: Emotion, Reason, and the Gap Between Us and Them by Joshua Greene
> Memoirs like Magical Thinking by Augusten Burroughs

TV
> Sci-fi dramas that try and say something interesting about us as a species like Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica, and Black Mirror
> Dark, character-driven, plot-heavy epics like Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones and House of Cards
> Documentaries like Cosmos

Movies
3:10 to Yuma, A Man From Earth, The Dark Knight, A Single Man, Pacific Rim, Cloverfield and many more. Recent favorites include Frozen and Her.

Food
Things that are edible. I tend to enjoy the context of food more than the food itself, to be honest.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
> People to care about
> Reason/Empiricism
> Freedom of travel
> Films/Books
> Computers
> Outdoor adventures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
> Ethics/Morality
> Geopolitics
> New projects
> Travel plans
> Programming-related things
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be terribly impatient. Can't wait to get over that.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
> You have something in common! Wanna go skiing together? Perhaps play some board games? Go to a microbrewery of excellent IPAs?
> You're kind, honest, and intelligent, please. :)