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29 F London, UK

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–35
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  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello there! I know what you're thinking.."Wow..did she really have to write that much?"

Always difficult to know where to start.. so here are a few random facts about me, and other info..

I should add to start with..I'm not high maintenance or one of those "it's complicated" types if anything "I'm simple" , nor am I looking to be with someone who is high maintenance either.

Sometimes I misread words..with comical results.

You know those types of really annoying people who can have a conversation with pretty much know..bus stops.. Queues..on trains.. They normally attract people in these situations who will tell them their entire life story (NB:They don't do this themselves). We all have a friend who is like this don't we? Well I don't. Why? Because I am that person.. The person who can start a conversation with pretty much anyone.

I have very small feet and therefore hate shoe shopping - I've never understood why many women have so many shoes (so you know I won't be dragging you around to find shoes that go with that one outfit that will only be worn once because no one could possibly see you wear it twice!).

Music is my main interest. I love music, I'm into all sorts of music, it would be great if I met someone who equally had a love of music.

Things that might help you to know about me:
- I definitely won't go out with anyone who smokes,
- I look a lot younger than I am (bring on 30 I say!),
- I can appear shy at first sometimes but once you get to know me you'll see I can be very chatty and I take the piss out of myself an awful lot (including some of my mates too)

I am looking for a long term relationship - so please don't take this as "Oh god she's going to be that desperate type" I'm not at all clingy, I can be really independent and I know what I want out of life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love all the other kinds of things people always put down like - going out with friends, cinema, shopping, going to comedy gigs, music gigs,theatre, going to see ballets (I've seen Romeo and Juliet and Swan Lake).

I am also doing three things which I have never done before (four if you include this website), a) writing a children's book so that my friend who is an illustrator can have her work shown.. b) I'm writing a script, c) making a cajon drum (with help from someone who already makes them) , this will be happening over the summer. I love having new little projects on the go.

I have 2 jobs,one is my own music business teaching little ones (and adults) piano, I love creating new games and materials to use in my teaching practice. The other job is working in a PRU. Quite a bit of time is taken up running my business or rehearsing - however, I know that when I meet the right person, I will make time for them.

I've also now got into a regular habit of going to the gym.. I used to hate going but in the last 6 months or so love going!

Recent update: I'm doing things that I've never done before and are (slightly) out of my comfort zone.. So I've already done a clowning class.. Last week I did an improv rap class..I'm doing another improv beginners class in a couple of weeks time..
( I'm either having my mid life crisis REALLY someone else said.. A mental breakdown.. Either way I'm having a bloody good time!)

Co hosting with Justin Lee Collins on Fubar Radio. You can download the app free..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't really like this box because whatever you write makes you look big headed.. so here are some random things..

My job working in a PRU (Pupil Referral Unit) requires me to be extremely patient and not get easily wound up by being sworn at etc. I am now entering my 6th year and it is a job that not many people could do. There aren't any words I find particularly offensive.. Also I think any word could sound offensive by the way it is said. I have an ability to switch off when someone swears at me, for example.

I am a real people person. I am very good at networking, last year I chaired a business breakfast meeting every last Friday of the month. About 30 people attend the meetings. The role means starting and finishing on time, getting people to stick to their 60 seconds (not as easy as it sounds), getting new people to join, persuading people to do a 10 min slot-who normally wouldn't want to do it etc.

I am really good at public speaking, I don't get flustered talking to a room of people..
Recently, I did a reading at my brothers wedding. At the end of it, people asked what my job was, because they thought it included public speaking, or acting..

It has been said I am influential - but in a good way.

Listening to people.

Laughing at myself.

Wiggling my ears. One of many useful skills handed down from my dad. No one else in my family can do this.

Also,I'm a pianist and cellist. I've been playing the piano since I was 4yrs old and 'cello since I was 12. I am working on setting up my own business teaching piano privately-so far it's going well. I perform in a local orchestra and love it! I've also just joined a band as a cellist.

I also love taking photos.. and seem to think I am pretty good at it - though this could be more to do with Instagram app.. Claire_Suzanne_

I'm getting better at using chopsticks and whenever I go for a Chinese I will always insist using them as much as possible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not sure what my favourite book is..I am reading a fantastic book at the moment called I Laughed I Cried by Viv Groskop. She's a journalist who hadn't ever done stand up comedy before, and she decides to do 100 gigs in 100 nights. The book is about every gig she did. It's wonderfully written and very funny..I've not finished it yet.


This is going to take a while to fill out..

Pretty much listen to tastes in music are really quite broad. I quite happily listen to Pendulum next to Prokofiev, Muse next to Mozart and Miles Davis. One of my all time favourite composers would be Rachmaninov. I was brought up at home listening to classical music and jazz.. Then when I went onto doing Music Tech at college I had to be able to listen to anything and pick out musical aspects to talk about, amongst other things.
There are some artists, or music that I really struggle to listen to Opera being one, Justin Bieber being another..happy to listen to drum and bass, dub step to name but a few genres.

Recently discovered a group called Pentatonix.. YouTube them.

I love finding new music artists to listen to..

TV Shows.
I like shows like Spooks, Suits, White Collar, Covert Affairs, Graceland, Scandal... Also shows that you have to pay attention to or you get lost like Homeland.
I like period dramas, and BBC dramas..

Can't stand Family Guy.


That make you think, laugh, horror or scary or gory films..

I love dance films, I'm just fascinated by the dancing part..even if the story line is awful, though Save the Last Dance 2 is an exception - hours of my life I'll never get back.
Step Up 4 is a film with brilliant choreography. I think it's so clever to be able to dance like that.

So to name some no order

Bourne Trilogy, Inception, Now You See Me, Don Jon (watch before you judge me on that has a good message in it..not just about porn addiction)

(I will list more later!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Recently did a stand up comedy course in Edinburgh which was over 2 days, and a total of 9 hours.
At the end of which I performed for 5mins in front of the (judging) public.

Currently, I am thinking a lot about that, I'd never done it took me completely out of my comfort zone.

I really enjoyed it.. Hoping to now go and do some more gigs.. Open mic nights and just see how far I can take it. No idea how far it will go..I just know I want to get back on stage..I am continuing to learn from watching other comedians..and for now it's going to be a lot of open mic nights and free gigs..

I've had some lovely feedback from people including comedians such as the likes of Reginald D Hunter and other comedians who have been in the industry and gigged for some time!

Here is a video I did for fun (there are other videos on my channel)..... Not great lighting:

Here is the footage of my stand up comedy, first time..part of Ed Fringe.. At Three Sisters (Free Sisters)

More up to date gig:
Gig 5! Funny Feckers: Hoot n Annie's, Kentish Tow…:

You can read more about it here..and keep up to date..(all my videos get uploaded here too)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I teach piano lessons on Saturday if I'm out I'm not normally out incredibly late.
You should message me if
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You've made this far and you're still interested? Wow. My profile is so long..

The thing is, I find it easier to say lots here..because then you pretty much know what sort of person I am and whether you want to message and then meet up. You could argue, that it's pointless writing so much because then there isn't much left to talk about..but I like to think that there's enough stuff here for you find something to message me about and start a conversation on something?

I have seen this added in a few profiles recently.. So I'm adding it too.

I have been advised to add this, as organisations and individuals have been using this site for research, press and fraudulent activities, possibly with the knowledge of OKC. "If any of my profile, ( words or pictures ), is used or copied without my permission or any other information about me is used, other than for the usual and normal use of connections through this site then those individuals or organisations will possibly be breaking the law. If so they will be subject to the legal ramifications of the law, for this un-authorised usage. Possible prosecution may follow. This is whilst my profile is available or after it is removed, now or at any time in the future, here in the UK or throughout the world, in any media wether electronic or printed.