Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Who am I? I am....
...an open person. I listen to both sides of a story. If only one
side is available, I try to imagine what the other side COULD be
like in order to be objective rather than just championing the
...an information gatherer and may ask many questions before I draw
a conclusion about anything.
...an honest person to a fault. I speak the truth....no matter
what. Unfortunatley, a lot of people don't want to hear the truth
and shoot the messenger. I have countless bullet holes.
...a responsible person. I have raised 2 wonderful sons. I pay my
bills on time. I have no debt.
...a dependable person. I follow through on commitments.
...a stable person. I maintain a purpose and do not fluctuate. If I
hit a bump in the road, I hold on tight and continue forward. I do
not run away from confrontation. I look for a resolution.
...a loving person. I do not put conditions on love. Love is a
gift. Love doesn't exist in the beginning of a relationship as
people believe. Love grows along with trust. It can take years to
build up 100% total trust, but less than a minute to destroy it
My approach to people, life and it's circumstances is as real as it
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Experiencing and learning lessons.
“The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a
lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that
teaches you a lesson.” ~ Tom Bodett
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Critical thinking....the "uncommon sense".
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmmm...no one has ever said.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - The Chalice and The Blade, Think Before You Believe, The
Four Agreements, The Five Love Languages.
Movies - Wizard of Oz, Gone With the Wind, Robin Hood, Braveheart,
The Other Bolyn Girl, First Knight, Shakespeare in Love, A Knight's
Tale, Sleepless in Seatle, Madagascar, A Bug's Life, Final
Countdown, Sixth Sense, Frequency.
Music - I like all music except heavy metal and rap. I am
particularly fond of the 70's and 80's. I also enjoy songs such as
Rossini's "William Tell Overture", Tchaikovsky's "1812 Overture",
Pachelbel's "Canon in D", Celtic Woman's "Níl Sé'n Lá", "Orinoco
Flow" (Enya), "Dulaman", Secret Garden's "Moving", "The Reel", "The
Rap". There are many more, but I am sure you have the picture by
Food - Everything except cilantro, asparagus and lima beans.
Unfortunately, I have acquired an allergy to raw
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The necessities of life (Water, Food, Clothing &
(Six, count them, it's really only six!!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Real love - forever vs. serial polygamy.
Happiness - absolute vs. relative.
Feelings - responsibility vs. blame.
Communication - intention vs. perception.
What time do I work tomorrow?...hahaha!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a "typical" Friday night. Sometimes I have to work and
sometimes I don't.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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We dont know each other well enough...yet....lol!
You should message me if
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... you would like to get to know me in person someday.
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