...an open person. I listen to both sides of a story. If only one side is available, I try to imagine what the other side COULD be like in order to be objective rather than just championing the known side.
...an information gatherer and may ask many questions before I draw a conclusion about anything.
...an honest person to a fault. I speak the truth....no matter what. Unfortunatley, a lot of people don't want to hear the truth and shoot the messenger. I have countless bullet holes.
...a responsible person. I have raised 2 wonderful sons. I pay my bills on time. I have no debt.
...a dependable person. I follow through on commitments.
...a stable person. I maintain a purpose and do not fluctuate. If I hit a bump in the road, I hold on tight and continue forward. I do not run away from confrontation. I look for a resolution.
...a loving person. I do not put conditions on love. Love is a gift. Love doesn't exist in the beginning of a relationship as people believe. Love grows along with trust. It can take years to build up 100% total trust, but less than a minute to destroy it all.
My approach to people, life and it's circumstances is as real as it gets.