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38 Ledgewood, NJ Man


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  • Ages 25–45
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am the father of a most awesome ten-year-old boy and this is needless to say, the main focus of my life and largely defines who I am.

I am an Irish immigrant, been living in New Jersey for almost 10 years now. Did not like it here at first, was quite a trying adjustment period, but now I love it.

I am somewhat random, reasonable, and reachable
What I’m doing with my life
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Muay Thai, running and yoga are currently providing me with a very nice physical, mental and spiritual balance. The three activities compliment each other so well and I am making strides to improve in each of them.

I have just completed my first half-marathon,and I hope to do my first full one this autumn. In yoga I have learned to do new things with not only my body but with my mind and I genuinely feel it gives me a better understanding of the world and my place in it. Muay Thai is teaching me kind of the same thing but on a more primal basis.

I sponsor three kids through Children International. Two girls from Ecuador and a little boy from Colombia.

I love hiking and camping though I don't get to do it nearly enough.

I am trying to be the best parent I can be. My boy is very mature and determined and has recently talked me into becoming a vegetarian. I have no problem with killing for food, I believe we are all part of the food chain, but I am proud of my sons convictions and will support him and reap the health benefits by doing so.

Obviously I work as well, I am a CNC machinist, but I wanted to talk about the fun stuff first.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being modest
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. Apparantly they are very blue. I personally don't see what the big deal is, but there you go.

Also I seem to be somewhat approachable. Apparantly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The "Uglies" series by Scott Westerfeld has totally sucked me into the world it's set in (our world in the future). I love so many things about this series, the social issues, the balanced philosophy, the flawed characters and their development throughout, the action scenes which are so easy to visualize, so much to say about it.

Aside from that John Steinbeck is my favorite author, though Neil gaiman is catching up. I love Orwell and twain, and Grisham who I honestly believe is akin to a modern day dickens.

I look back fondly at the times I was lost in Narnia. I try to remember the valuable lessons I learned at Hogwarts. I still to this day ponder the question which allows life, the universe and everything summed up by the number 42. And I am currently stuck in the seven kingdoms of Westeros waiting for the next update, and which of my favorite characters I'll be mourning next!

Basically I like the Young Adults section in the library. If having an imagination makes me immature, then I am fine with that.

I like tons of books outside that section too, and I enjoy a good book discussion.

I encourage my kid to read and have therefore delved into the worlds of Rick Riordan; Roald Dahl and Andrew Clements. I thank my son profusely for this.

I am starting to read a lot of non-fiction now, particularly history. I am currently reading a book about the various religions of the world. This newfound curiosity I again attribute to my physical activities.

My favorite movie is Forrest Gump. The glorification of simplicity. I'm not saying we shouldn't be ambitious or strive for greatness, but we do in general over complicate things.

The only TV show that ever really pulled me in was Buffy the Vampire Slayer until recently the walking dead, and well since I have to wait for whenever the next book comes out, game of thrones (which is a fantastic page to screen conversion, I have to say)

Wwe is my guilty pleasure. When done right wrestling is a very fine performance art, a more physical ballet of sorts. Unfortunately it's not done right very often these days.

My favorite musical artists are Iron Maiden and P!nk. They are both very unique artists, who think way outside their genre.

My favorite channels on pandora however are Vivaldi, john williams Nature/meditations, Les Miserables, Ricky Gervais, Dimitri Martin, phineas and ferb and They Might Be Giants
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The people closest to me.

Everything else is replaceable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can we be so caught up in taking sides between the democrats and the republicans that the blatant corruption and destruction of our planet by both parties has pretty much become accepted as part of the norm?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Preparing for an early morning run.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, let's get to that one step at a time yeah?
You should message me if
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You live in the wonderful state of New Jersey. Preferably an hour or less away from me.

You want to meet for coffee.

You want to go hiking or running with me.