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57 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
By way of introduction, read all or part of the following keeping in mind that humor and seriousness are not contradictory. I'm quite humorous, curious, sometimes intense and creative, generally open and relaxed, very approachable, receptive and responsive. I'm attracted to rather than intimidated, (as is sometimes mentioned in profiles), by a woman's 'muchness' -- intelligence, competence, creativity, curiosity, expressiveness, femininity, and emotional and physical strength, openness and vulnerability.
Neither race, ethnicity, education, height, or religion (unless fundamentalist or orthodox) are deal breakers. I've had close loving relations with women of varied backgrounds. If you're heatfull, mindful, feminine, and strong, I'd love to explore the possibility of either friendship or coupling.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm very independent and self directed. I've had a life long fascination with the "Who am I" - the wonderful depth, scope and mystery of the self and life which I've pursued through a range of personal experience (art, nature, and intimacy - details when we connect); and my early work in inter-group relations utilizing experiential methods dealing with racial, religious, ethnic, and geographical prejudice; and later a non-diagnostic approach working with individuals and small groups in terms of personal growth.
I've known what it is to love, cherish, nurture, and celebrate friend or lover, and seek either of those possibilities. Sadly, the truth is that many live defensively in avoidance of disappointment. Nothing in my experience deters me from once again seeking the joy of love - an easy flow of conversation, the bubbling warmth of laughter and finding humor in the moment, the singular feeling of being-at-home-together, relaxed and caring, passionate and intense, the sanctuary of tenderness and touch, and the affinity of shared presence being visible each to the other. Do you have the courage (the root apparently means "to have heart" to say yes to life and love, or at least sharing and friendship?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... finding humor in the moment, listening, appreciating and celebrating your bright mind, buoyant spirit, deep feelings, energy and strength. The contemporary woman capable of flexing her mind and muscles is a turn on not an intimidation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... my receptivity, ease, sometimes intensity, and my openness. And there's laughter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My taste in the arts and culture ranges wide and deep. Maybe I'll add some specifics (see above) or just ask. Other than being audience, I'd love to have a Honey once again with whom to dance cheek to cheek, salsa, or swing... And since I love being outdoors and especially seeing the Moon's journey across the heavens through the month from month to month, I generally bike to these 'hives' of creative activity.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
... my mind, my heart, humor, laughter, curiosity, and joy in nurturing and loving (this is a circle not a line, each equally available from my center)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Given the existential reality that we're just passing thorough, what greater priority is there than love, friendship, and creative living. I'm fascinated by our current explorations into reality from the Big Bang to dark matter and energy, the evolution of life, and the mystery of consciousness. Have you seen images from the Hubble telescope yet wondered that 93% of the universe supposedly isn't visible? And what about that 3 pound entity known as the most complex object in the known universe - the human brain.....
I also wonder at the basic absence of human contact on these sites; that members seem to believe they can achieve friendship or romance from a digital display. Even a single meeting is a lesson in the distinction between a living, animated person and a two dimensional computer display. It seems many don't learn from experience and prefer their digital fantasy to the living reality of a person's presence. Even openness to conversation is relatively rare. What I've learned from my work isn't that people aren't sincere about their desires but that they're busy being who they are and can't get there from where that is. As long as the priority remains to defend one's self or maintain the comforting illusion of a fictional ideal, there's no actual place for a vibrant living person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... at a performance or museum. With you it might include dancing, snuggling at home, preparing a meal together or watching a film....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm disappointed that this process has settled on what is known as the lowest common denominator. A profile is an invitation. If someone gives it the respect of their attention coupled with a thoughtful or felt response, they usually deserve a reply, even if it's a "Not interested", "Not attracted", "Unavailable", "Interested but can't make it". Rejection isn't an excuse for indifference, insensitivity, reduction of others (equally aware and feeling humans) since it's delusional to ignore that it's 98% of what takes place and to use it to excuse a non-reply because one doesn't want to hurt someone's feelings. I'm not referring to junk emails. It's a disrespect of one's self to claim YOU'RE sincere and caring while treating others as objects of your priority - what Martin Buber called "I/It" rather than "I/Thou".
You should message me if
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... you appreciate a guy capable of making you laugh, stimulating your mind, and who truly admires a contemporary woman who radiates with the joy of realizing her personal potential as a bright, buoyant, attractive, well toned, playful, feminine and fit, creative being. Affinity is a wonderful gift, neither threatening or intimidating, to appreciate and be appreciated as friend or lover.