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28 M Calcutta, India

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 22–34
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 1:15pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, Bengali

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My self-summary
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if we view our life as a story being told, i'm trying to make it one that's worth listening to. but at this point in time, it's only waiting to be played out, not trying to follow a predetermined path while i'm going through some kind of metamorphosis.
it's been an eventful journey of rise and fall to arrive at this point, and i'll be happy to share those stories if you want.

i believe in letting the mind fly without fetters in search of the ideas or ideals that could add meaning and purpose to our futile existence (!), and not get tied inside a comfortable cage of security. but i understand the difference between liberty/ free will, and lack of self-control. (i'm very disciplined about the things i care about).

at the same time, i value bonds of affection, have always been a trustworthy friend, trusting people easily and getting taken advantage of! i also believe in the power of love, and how it can motivate someone to take great steps.

so even though, i may not be a "perfect" guy to hold on to if you're searching for materialistic security (at least for the time being), i have other unique qualities to look out for. so, why not mingle without much expectation of that sort...i can be a person to hang out with, to talk about the humdrum of life, do some creative stuff with (i can call myself a musician), or maybe someone to write to (if you're from a distant land)...
there are many ways to see joy on one another's face, and that's what bonds are about, aren't they?
and who knows where these interactions might take us to...

by the way, please don't bother about those ugly pics! and i don't keep long hair anymore...(prefer shaved head instead!)
What I’m doing with my life
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for me art is about intense explosions of emotions expressed in peace and tranquility, while science is an adventure of creating order out of the diversity of nature through creative use of our intellect as we try to understand the nature and ourselves. i'm really passionate about these things and that defines my way of life.
but a man cannot be an i guess i need human interaction to feel alive.
every day i'm trying to learn a little bit of all these.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
forgive the bragging, but usually i'm pretty good at anything that requires brain power and time. (i've studied at prestigious institutions as well...but i don't conform to the idea of "branding")
and despite being sarcastic, i can make people feel better.
The first things people usually notice about me
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never really inquired about it..hahaha
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: only physics texts!!

Movies: most of Martin Scorsese and Christopher Nolan films, Godfather, The Matrix, American Beauty, The Pianist, Star wars, animation movies like Kung Fu Panda or finding Nemo, comedy stuff Meet the Parents, etc. some of Satyajit Ray's films, not too experienced, but some world movies like Iranian ones i've seen, or something like Waltz with Bashir etc.
Sorry for not squeezing in something from the romantic movies section...haha

Shows: sitcoms like Seinfeld, Big Bang Theory, old/classic Cartoon shows (it's funny to see the resemblance to the real life toons!)...but not too fond of the idiot-box.

Music: Pink Floyd, Dire Straits, The Doors, Brit stuff like Radiohead, instrumental rock like Joe Satriani; can't leave out my own brand of progressive psychedelic stuff that i compose for myself, some North Indian classical, little bit of Western Classical, world music, some 80s/90s pop/electronic stuff, etc. it really boils down to the song, not the performer/band.

Food: anything that's not too difficult to eat, and not too loud in terms of flavors.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
it's amazing how people love to do silly things when someone who appears to be authoritative dictates a set of actions as necessity. who says you got "6" things that you couldn't do without (if there is really any at all)? and yet everyone will start searching for 6 of them reaching out to the far flung corners of their mind... and if they fail to come up with anything meaningful, will come up with things like air, water, family, god or whatever...things that make the question redundant.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why do so many people confuse maturity with insecurity and follow the doctrine of "nothing is ever enough".
why does optimism take the form of denial for them?
is it really that important to put up a facade in the form of ego?
i'm not trying to sound intellectual or heavy...but can't think of something better to summarize what i've felt so many times.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
oblivious of the fact that it's Friday and probably playing the guitar by myself. everyday is friday for the grasshopper and monday for the ant. now which of these is me? (a question that confuses me all the time!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm quite unsocial...i don't have any facebook or twitter accounts and i've also stopped using a cell phone. (but probably i'll have to get one again).
that being said, i can spend hours chatting with people when i manage to open up, giving them a completely different impression. (used to be very extroverted as a child)
You should message me if
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how can i put it? we want to interact or be around with people who share something in common, and/or people who fill up the gaps in us i.e. complement and complete us (even if it's only their presence).
so, i've tried to give a sneak peak into my mind that is detailed enough in this given space. but summarizing all that information led to speaking in abstract terms.
all i can say is that, i'm very open and friendly to strangers even if they are significantly different than me.
i'm clear and assertive about what i think or feel, but i'm not pushy/persuasive, nor argumentative.
so feel free to communicate.