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cfinsouthbay

34 / F / bisexual / Single

Long Beach, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am strong, empathetic, and astute.

My Self-Summary

I have a good sense of humor and often find that it is more suited in the company of men than of women. I enjoy trying new things out such as skydiving and possibly swimming with sharks. I believe that life should be lived with no regrets which does not mean that it should be lived recklessly or without accepting responsibility or consequences, but one that you actively live out and pursue versus just exist. I would have to say that besides my rebellious streak and a non-conventional appearance, I am well grounded and have a high standard of loyalty and a strong sense of caring for those around me. I'm more forward than sometimes is appropriate, but can not live with myself if I was not sincere and honest, even if it is sometimes to a fault. I don't believe in sugar-coating or hiding anything as it seems more like a ploy to manipulate a situation or person or as though you can not share your thoughts or opinions with another individual. I don't see the reason to waste someone else's time by not really trying to understand or know the other person.

What I’m doing with my life

Animal Control Officer, Animal Rescuer, member of Disaster Animal Response Teams and Disaster Human Assistance Specialist. Do you sense a theme here? My personal passions tend to encompass helping others, including animals. I therefore am most passionate about finding a position or role in which I can utilize all my experiences and skills to contribute to the benefit of others, particularly domestic animals or those afflicted by disasters. I've been involved in disaster animal rescue and disaster human rescue and keep that element prevalent in my life. I hope to find a partner who is passionate about what he or she finds meaningful, whether or not it is in the same field.

I’m really good at

Finding a way to connect with people and displaying empathy with a variety of people and cultures.

The first things people usually notice about me

Smile or my scowl. Most people say that they notice that I have presence. Or was it that I was present? I'm really not concerned about the first things they notice, but more the lasting impression we make on each other. I don't judge purely on first impressions and I hope that this is mutually shared with those I come into contact.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The six things I could never do without

My dogs and cat, my friends and close companions, my truck or reliable means of transportation, anything that makes me laugh (appropriate or not), rare connections that make that one moment stand out and music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

On a typical Friday night I am

Working, chasing dogs and trying to avoid getting bitten.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm notorious for pushing buttons in stores whether on toys or on electronics. *weak smile* Still got the child in me.

You should message me if

Your interest is piqued. Please note that I'm interested in someone my age or older preferred, but no more than 7 years older than myself. I have found that individuals younger or much older than myself are in a different place than I am and it has not worked out well. Please have a picture or several pictures and some information on your profile. Even if you are not interested, good luck in your search.