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cgearhart

20 / M / Bisexual / Available

Bloomington, Indiana

His Details

Last Online
Today – 9:05am
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
[DISCLAIMER] I'm in an open relationship, in fact, I'm engaged. I'm very happy with that. Being in an open relationship doesn't mean that I'm going to sleep with you just because you asked, it means that the option is available for me to pursue some one if I so desire both sexually and/or romantically. While I technically am available, I don't know if I'm looking for any more partners. I'll still be a good friend and respond to messages from strangers though.

[From a good friend of mine] Cody is effortlessly charismatic. People are drawn to him the way that water collects. He is a tinge cynical about the world, sarcastic in a subtle way, more than a little selfless, fiercely loyal to his friends, emotionally reserved, relatively nerdy, laid-back, and intelligent. He is passionate about martial arts, and I'm pretty sure his favorite food is rice.
~Kat

I guess that sums it up rather well. I'm pretty easy going. I love my friends. I love martial arts. I give away just about every damn thing that I can afford to. I open doors for people. I stick up for the smaller man.

I have two tattoos (at least 20 to go), and I want a few piercings.

I like talking to most people out there. But to be honest I don't find many people actually interesting. *shrug*

Scored an INTJ: http://www.16personalities.com/intj-personality
Scored a 2 on the Kinsey scale.
What I’m doing with my life
I just got an apartment with my fiance and my best friend.
I'm working out on a daily basis.
I'm debating whether or not I want to go to college.
I'm looking for new friends.
I'm avoiding old enemies.
I'm working a lot.
I'm looking for new friends.
I'm reading a lot.
I'm playing video games.
I'm helping strangers.
I'm being proud of my beard.

I'm looking for people to practice martial arts with. Sparring is more my thing, but I'm always up to learning a new form.

1/21/13: First day of Insanity work out program, and first day of Zumba. Both interesting and a workout in their own way.
I’m really good at
Martial Arts.
Cleaning.
Making Jewelry.
Talking.
Traversing.
Getting eaten by bugs.
Playing Tekken. (And about every other fighting game, watch out!)
Licking my elbow. (Yup, weird.)
The first things people usually notice about me
Get to know me, and then tell me. Then I'll be able to fill this damn space out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Christopher Moores "Lamb, the Gospel Accord to Biff, Christs Childhood Pal." Anything by him really. Books on philosophy, psychology, sociology, history, and art.

I've also recently really been digging the "Enders Game" books, and everything else by Orson Scott Card.

Music: The Rolling Stones, Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, The Who. Linkin Park, The Doors, Three Days Grace, Eminem, Blood Hound Gang, Smash Mouth, Eve 6, Spineshank, Oomph!, Gackt!, Maximum The Hormone, The Wild Colonial Boys.

I really like Trance music and most electronic sub genres. I like comedic music; Axis of Awesome, Tenacious D, They Might Be Giants. etc etc.

Actually, just about anything that isn't about "poppin' a cap in a mutha fuckers ass", or along the lines of "My wife left me, my dog died, where is my beer?" is alright with me.

Food: Yes. Sushi, Rice, Vegetables, Noodles. Cheeses, I eat more cheese than any one human should.

Shows: FireFly, Heroes, Game of Thrones, Deadliest Warrior, Fight Quest, Human Weapon, Pushing Daisies, MythBusters. That about sums it up, although I don't watch T.V. too often.
The six things I could never do without
My Fiance.
My Friends.
My Martial Arts.

I'm pretty sure I could do without everything else that isn't mandatory. (Food, water, the ilk)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Martial arts.
Friends.
Family.
Music.
Food.
Philosophy.
Philotes.
String Theory.
Religion. (No, I won't shove any belief down your throat)
What I'm doing this day.
How I can better myself.
Do the dishes need to be done?

I find myself often thinking that I was born 1500 years late.

I often daydream of getting into epic kung fu fights in the street.

Over the past few years I've begun to slowly lose my heroes and the people that I look up to. Not that they are gone, or that they have disregarded me as a person, but I keep finding things they have done that I just cannot agree with. It sucks.

I keep coming back to the question of "Who am I?", usually followed by "What am I?". I mean, I am a human, I have a name. But I spend a lot of time thinking about my role in everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
I usually stay at home with friends and do things like play board games, play video games, spar, watch movies, etc etc etc.

Although I like to go out to dinner and walk about downtown in the winter.

Nothing beats jammin' out to The Doors during a thunderstorm.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like to talk about myself a whole lot. I'm not too open or into talking about my past. I mean this profile is all about me, the things I like, the things I don't like, but it's not about what I've done or where I've been. There is certainly a bit of a crowbar separation there.

Every time I look at my profile, I think I've put too much into it.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You have questions relating to martial arts.
You want to go out and get some dinner sometime with me and my friends.
You're new to town and need a guiding hand.
You need some one to teach you how to play Dungeons and Dragons.
You need some one to talk to about something serious.
You know some secret long forgotten martial art technique.
You want a new friend.
You want to take some martial arts lessons.

You yourself can teach martial arts. I need to learn more.
Chinese martial arts <3

If you've been out of the United States, I want to hear about it.

Also my girlfriend and I have started talking about involving other people in the bedroom, mainly women, so if you may be interested in that, feel free to send me a message.

Any other reason? I mean, I don't see why you shouldn't.