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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 57-69
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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I've been a nature buff all my life. Being in woods, under open sky, in or by oceans or lakes restores my soul.

I love hiking, biking, kayaking, x-country/down-hill skiing, tennis, swimming, dancing, yoga, watching documentaries, Jon Stewart, Robert Krulwich, Curb Your Enthusiasm.

My energy level is high. I'm warm, loving, demonstrative, and fun.

I have a great desire for travel and adventure. I've biked 10 countries in Europe; rafted down the Rio Bio Bio; and hiked the Torres del Paine in Chile. I'm looking for a soul-mate, travel companion, life partner, confidante, best friend, and lover, to share all of my future adventures. Whether it's visiting NYC or other cities for great theater and museums or a new restaurant down the block, it's more fun with a partner in crime.

I'm not all travel and adventure. I'm also a home-body. I love to take baths, cook creative(organic) meals, watch movies in bed and read in my hammock on my screen porch surrounded by my trees, plants, and flowers.

I have a quick wit and an intellectual appetite that thrives with lots of stimulation. You get extra points if you're into NPR, NYT, PBS, "Fresh Air", "Radio Lab", and "This American Life".

I'm attracted to men who are kind, honest, happy, good communicators, fit, emotionally available, smart, well-informed, well-read, loving, and laugh easily.

Most likely our differences will be too great if you vote Republican.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a retired clinical social worker(worked on army bases overseas counseling soldiers). I volunteer for Red Cross traveling the country doing disaster mental health, CH food kitchen, and attend lots of lectures, plays, and documentaries at Duke and UNC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...being a participant rather than just an observer in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Perhaps you'll tell me after we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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King Leopold's Ghost, Secret Life of Bee's, From the Land of Green Ghosts, and Fiasco. I loved Philip Roth's, 'Patrimony" and most things by Bill Bryson, Samantha Power, and Jon Krakauer.
I have a long list of favorite documentaries and two outstanding non-docs: 'The Lives of Others' and 'Ordinary People'.
I love theater, Mozart operas, the Blues and big band music of the 40's. I sing along with Broadway musicals and 60's music (you've been warned).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could live without these things if I had to, but life wouldn't be as much fun:
intellectual stimulation
a lover/ life partner/physical and emotional intimacy
physical activity
fresh fruit and veggies
close friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tikkun Olam, man's inhumanity to man and the environment
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My preference would be to share the evening with a loving partner. What I do isn't as important as with whom I am spending my time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I twisted with Sammy Davis, Jr. at the Latin Casino when I was 10 in front of 3000 people.
You should message me if
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You share at least a few of my interests and much of what I wrote resonates with you.