Wow. I'd report this to the authorities.

I dunno who to report it though. Anyone can *say* they did something.... Who do I even report this to?

First things first I'd report it to OKC. Since they have his account information, IP addy, Mac address, they can provide this to the authorities to determine who his internet provider is and question them. From there they can get his billing information and thus his home address. I know a lot about this due to some girl threatening to commit suicide. I didn't have her name or anything else and the ambulance did arrive and take her to the hospital. Long story.

omg i talked to that dude too!! he said the same things to me... it was gross... i didnt know what to think or do....

xxlonelyxlovexx- if it was with AIM, check the history, copy it, and send it to the police.

I'm not convinced. You were the one to initiate the perversions, he looks like he's just playing along. Dangerous waters to be treading, never the less. If he is an incestuous child molester, he's one dumb son of a bitch for making it so obvious. If he's not, what you did is called "entrapment" and then made your success public, which is also a crime. He could actually sue civilly you right now for slander, but I doubt he cares enough to do so.

He volunteered "I have even let her do it for me" without prompting. Definitely alert OKC and his local copshop. I am going to do some Google stalking.

Please confirm that you have done everything you can to alert the relevant authorities. And in future, do not contribute to discussions about this subject with people you suspect might find them arousing. Are you stupid?

awww, man, I am disgusted by what you both said, tbh.

report him to chris hanson ldo.

Microwaved, no she cannot be sued for slander (which is verbal) or for libel (which is written). Truth is an absolute affirmative defense against both. Thus putting out what he himself wrote is neither libel nor any form crime. And, entrapment is purely the province of authorities and does not apply to civilians. Oh, and your whole defense of his discussion gives me serious heebie-jeebies. Just saying.

i'm disgusted by him. i'm glad that you posted this and i'm mortified that another young woman had a similar conversation with him and didn't. just because it's the internet, we often feel that we shouldn't "do what's right" because we are disconnected from the jerks. we have to remember that pedophiles are sick and need to be exposed, if only to get the help they need. i'm glad that you got the authorities involved. remember it may be the internet, but we often only get one chance to do the right thing. and if we assume what he said was true, there's a little 8 year old girl who we should be thinking of first. kudos to you for finding the strength to report him.

You did the right thing posting his screen name.... that is just worng what he is doing..

I only showed a small portion of the convo, dickwad. I didn't post that he started most of this, esp yesterday talking about masturbating.

That's pretty creepy, but it's really fucking creepy that you were going along with it, regardless of whether you were playing internet detective or not.

Denversinner, you beat me to the punch! Chainedpunkgirl committed no crime (the ignorance of anyone even suggesting she had astounds me). What needs to be done now (to restate what has already been said) is to report this to OKC and (if the convo took place on any other medium) the provider of such. Sadly, most online service providers won't do any more in these cases than simply ban the offender. What's needed is a little detective work. OKC won't tell you what you need to know, as a matter of privacy policy. The next time anyone chats with this guy, they need to find a way to take it off IM and into email. Once an email address is had, the ISP info can be traced using any number of free online sources, such as "Who Is". Once the offender's relative location is discovered, the local PD can be notified directly, and the gathered evidence sent to them. At that point, they will follow up on it and contact child services, if necessary. Kudos to you, CPG, for expressing concern over this matter. Shame on those of you who had contact with this guy before and did nothing. Being aware of a crime and doing nothing about it is abetting. You become a willing accomplice to the crime - making you no better than the offender. There's no excuse for inaction when a child is endangered.

Cpg, I don't want to get into a conversation about this, but I have to tell you that encouraging that exchange when the child was in the room was disgusting behaviour ON YOUR PART. You didn't have to 'find the strength' to post this, you clearly revelled in the spectacle of it all. I hope you have followed this up, and that the whole thing was just a stupid conversation with no real life consequences. If he is abusing his neice, HE is ill, his NIECE is an innocent victim, and YOU are a stupid, stupid woman getting cheap attention from their suffering.

In response- I am not defending the actions of the accused. In fact, I think both parties involved are equally fucked up in the head. He should not be pulling shock-tactics which are exaggerated to a point where it's obviously a prank, and she should not be encouraging him to do so under the premise of public humiliation. You are all fools for believing there is any truth to this. Real pedophiles are your teachers, your pastors, your daycare assistants, and they do not blatantly advertise their actions which if made public would result in 20 years behind bars. Stop being so gullible and recognize the man is an asshole, not a pedophile, and should be banned for that reason instead.

I wholeheartedly agree with amy. It is obvious. And I have issues with people that hide behind noble pretenses more than anything else.

Meh, believe what you want. If I didn't think I was doing the right thing, I wouldn't have contacted the authorities.