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31 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:29pm
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
if it means anything to you, i'm a Cancer Sun, Aries Moon, Taurus Rising
i like to say i have a hard shell and two sets of horns : )

other personality typings:
2 on the Enneagram, INFJ, a Dog in Chinese Astrology

i'm an artist.
sensitive, creative, intense, very in touch with my emotions and intuition, grounded, usually practical, sometimes impractical, love the moon, have a vivid imagination, sometimes quiet, sometimes loud, passionate, vibrant, enthusiastic, optimistic, love riding my bike, love being outdoors whether at the park, in the garden, or in the woods.

i enjoy being active, and i try to balance time spent outward with time spent inward to recharge.

living with integrity is very important to me.
this means working on being whole in my life---in my thoughts, words, actions, work, relationships, in every aspect of my life.

my personal growth is critical to me and i hope to find a partner who is committed to their personal growth too.
What I’m doing with my life
i'm figuring out how i can contribute to the world in a good way, how to live with integrity, how to come alive

i love making things: good food, brightly colored pretty things, altars arranged from nature's debris and found objects

i work as a tailoring assistant and love my job!
I’m really good at
putting unusual combinations together (think food combos, color combos, clothing combos)
following through on what i say i'm going to do
being consistent and steady
taking care of people
laughing loudly
being quiet
The first things people usually notice about me
i'm short
i'm wearing a stylish, unique, probably brightly colored outfit (see above: putting unusual combinations together)
i appear calm, steady, and present
i've been told by people meeting me for the first time that i look really serious
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Eat, Pray, Love
The Artist's Way
The Missing Piece Meets the Big O


Bossanova, Vampire Weekend, Jack Johnson, Adele, Pink Martini, Amy Winehouse, 80s, Nina Simone, Manu Chao, Oldies, Madeleine Peyroux

nachos, sauce----ketchup, barbecue, mayonnaise, ranch, hollandaise, curry, peanut, you name it! , indian, mexican, vietnamese (specifically my mother's cooking), ethiopian, kale (and lots of it), beets, garlic, beans, cheese, fries, chocolate, chips
The six things I could never do without
good food
my friends
my family
bright colors
quiet time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
things i want to make. on the near future list: quiche, kale chips, curtains for my new place, tailored pants and dresses!
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i don't shave my armpit hair
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 31–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
we're an 80% match or higher

you know who you are, what you want out of life, aren't afraid to go after it, and you're able to laugh when things don't go as planned

you feel engaged in and love your life
you are inspired to make a difference in the world