okay so here goes.
Sometimes your the cat, sometimes your the mouse.
Sometimes you want pie but all there is is cake. Maybe you eat cake sometimes but you know in the back of your head you would really prefer pie. And you know what? It's okay! Just let the cake know that it's not going to work out and that there are lots other people out there that prefer cake. It's not that cake isn't great, you're just more of a pie person.