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50 Santa Cruz, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 34-50
  • Located anywhere
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
White, Other
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**My entire profile is under reconstruction, so check back later**

**update as of 3/19/15, I am planning to move back to Oregon within 3 years from now. Also, if you aren't at least a 80% match your messages probably won't pass my filters.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm looking to build my massage practice and teach workshops.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving relaxing, safe, nonsexual, therapeutic massages, dancing and writing, when I feel inspired.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is my big nose, and my big ass. Then usually my dimple if I'm smiling and my sense of humor. Next my sharp wit and bad manners.

Occasionally someone scratches the surface and gets to know me better, but not often. I am deeply loyal, and slow to anger, Generous when I have it to give, and compassionate to some of whom are considered the most pathetic on earth. Lastly I'm painfully honest, to a fault.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All you need to know is that I am not a vegetarian and will probably never be, but I do eat organically and as consciously as I can, budget allowing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Clean, unadulterated air. Preferably out in the country somewhere

2. Spring water.

3. A river to swim in.

4. Good preferably organic food, but I'll settle for good food in a good restaurant.

5. The right shade of green sunglasses.

6. The right brand of lip balm.

And the seventh thing I can't live without...Love in my life!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too damned much, like how to create domestic peace and how that relates to world peace. How to create space to teach my trauma survivor workshops.

And what faerie kisses feel like?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Time folds like an Accordian for me, so 'Friday' means nothing in my world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I often feel like a gay man in a woman's body. I am a pagan.
You should message me if
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You are a bisexual or heteroflexilbe male or bisexual female

You are crazy enough to be interested and not revolted.

You know me already.

If you don't drink like a fish or smoke tobacco (and don't even live with anyone who smokes tobacco, I'm highly allergic).

You probably should NOT contact me if you smoke tobacco, aren't comfortable with FTM's or don't understand the term BDSM. And if your under 30, don't even bother contacting me, you're younger than my own children.

If you are local, I'm looking for new friends