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charismaticace

27 / M / Straight / Single

Storm Lake, Iowa

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am smart, polite, and introspective.

My Self-Summary

I would describe myself as a jack of all trades and master of none. That's not self-depreciating, it's the truth. I have done everything from raising turkeys to selling insurance. I tend to get interested in a particular subject, learn as much as I can about it, and then when I've had my fill, I move on. I have a hobby of self-improvement. I might see a skill someone I admire has, and then try to cultivate it in myself. This has made me a very well-rounded person. Almost too well rounded in a sense. People think because I am interested in one thing, it is mutually exclusive to another and I don't 'fit in' in either category. I am accepting of all opinions, even if I don't agree with them, and I enjoy lively, CIVIL debate.

What I’m doing with my life

I enjoy writing and helping people so I have started my own grant writing business. No matter what happens, I only want to do what God's will is for me and when I leave this world, I want simply to be remembered as a good and decent man who saw wrong and tried to right it, saw suffering and tried to heal it, saw pain and tried to soothe it.

I’m really good at

Blackjack
Writing

The first things people usually notice about me

My gentlemanly qualities: Opening doors, pulling out chairs, using "sir" and "ma'am."

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:
Little House on the Prairie Series
A Sense of Honor
Band of Brothers
The Jungle
Roots

Movies: (Oh Lord, I have netflix and no life ;-)
The Man From Snowy River (HUGE points if you've seen this)
Return to Snowy River
Red River
Pretty Woman
Dirty Dancing
Pearl Harbor (Yeah, I know)
An Officer and a Gentleman
Seabiscuit
Top Gun
Good Will Hunting
When Harry Met Sally
Memphis Belle
The Godfather (Parts I & II, forget about III)
Rocky (I-IV, forget V, although VI wasn't as bad as it could have been)
Ladder 49

TV Shows:
Cheers Re-runs
Mad About You Re-Runs
M*A*S*H re-runs
Mama's Family Re-runs (Notice a pattern?)
Old School ER (before Clooney Left)
Seinfeld
Star Trek

The six things I could never do without

God
My Family
Friends
Writing
Books
Really, really good, stimulating conversation

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My future. Great movie quotes: "He's not a lad, brother, he's a man."

On a typical Friday night I am

Working.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am 26 years old and I have yet to have a single alcoholic drink, smoke, or do drugs. Moreover, by my own choice, I am also a virgin and I will remain so until I have stood before God and the most important people in my life and pledged myself to the one love of my life.

You should message me if

You are looking for a true gentleman.
You want to get to know someone without the complications of sex.
You would describe yourself as "old fashioned."
You love history - especially 1940s and WWII era.
You enjoy simply sitting with someone, enjoying stimulating conversation.