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charismo

39 Edison, NJ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Surprise. You found me. Here I am, seeing what is out there in the sea. I really enjoy meeting people in the real world but am giving online a try. It has worked for my friends, so I figure why not me.

I'd like to find that beautiful type of relationship where life can be shared on a deeper level. Don't you want the same? Who knows, maybe it is with you, but we both won't know until we get to know each other.

I’m looking for someone who is smart, fun, intelligent, genuine, caring, loyal, and has a great sense of humor. Am I asking for too much? Hopefully, not. If you think I am let me know.

I am intelligent, funny, authentic, affectionate, hardworking, loyal, caring, friendly, and love to try new things. You could say that I am a "Renaissance man", with my priorities in order and I know how to treat a lady. Besides my mom would kick my butt if I do not treat you right.
I balance professionalism and fun in all of life's adventures. I work hard and play hard. I am very close with my family and friends.

With my business, I'm creative and driven. I get to do help others with their passion, and love every second of it. It brings me joy that I can help the community and people with their career.

Sometimes I do things on the spur of the moment and sometimes I plan them out. I love travel all around the world and throughout the US and am hoping to do so with you. Do you love to travel too?

Send me a message if you have any level of interest... Let's see where it goes. I love a woman who initiates.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating my own adventures. Living it to the fullest with no regrets. Working smarter, and having fun :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
anything I put my mind to. I am like a Jedi.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile :) Then my personality :) But I'll let you be the judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The last two books that I read was Webster's Dictionary and The Da Vinci Code.

I am currently writing my own series of books for my business.

Movies: Powder, Untamed Heart, Notebook, Avatar, A Bronx Tale, Peaceful Warrior, Kite Runner
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A brain
2) Street Smarts
3) An Education
4) My Family & Friends
5) A shower
6) Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why think about it when you can just go out and do it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying in watching a movie or out and about at a restaurant/lounge. It all depends if I have work or not the next day. I am a very responsible individual.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It would not be private if it is posted here.
You should message me if
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You can make me smile even when you're not with me. Just the thought of you makes me smile. You can be spontaneous and passionate. You don't dwell in the past and expect the best of the future. You can smile even when soaked on a wet day. You have a good sense of humor. You look great in little black number as well as an old pair of jeans/sweats that have become part of the family. You have a mind of your own.