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charles510

45 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:01pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Writer & professor. Newly single (but not damaged!).
(more soon)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, music, performance, editing, activism, going to see art & dance & poetry readings, teaching writing (& thus grading papers), walking the dogs, heading out with the dogs to Joshua Tree...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
this week, reading new books by Anne Boyer, Bhanu Kapil, Dawn Lundy Martin...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dogs, trips out of the city (usually to the desert), a piano to bang on, art & culture that challenges me, a good healthy sex life...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Art and writing and their relation to activism. How to live both in the city and the desert at the same time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart, strong, and sexy (on your own terms).

Open minded, non judgmental, healthy and fit, politically on the left, know the difference between it's/its and they're/their/there, Burning Man isn't the highlight of your year, able to laugh at yourself (or at least at me), don't take yourself too seriously (though are serious about things that matter to you), enjoy going out but not a partier…

Bonus points if you own both a pair of cowboy boots and some sexy heels.