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23 M Lewisham, UK

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:04pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Very often
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I like wine and queer theory and Kyary Pamyu Pamyu and intersectional feminism and art and fuck loads of cake and KFC and glitter and bondage and Westwood and tweeting (@charliesarson).
What I’m doing with my life
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An MA at Goldsmiths in Contemporary Art Theory, but that makes it sound completely different to what I actually do which is pretty much just write essays about gay sex and cum tbf. And when I'm not doing that, I'm probably getting somebody to buy me a drink somewhere.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the aura of heterophobia
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Jack Halberstam, Judith Butler, Elizabeth Freeman, Donna Haraway, Gavin Butt, Jean Baudrillard, Jacques Derrida, Julia Kristeva, Susan Sontag, Luce Irigaray, Douglas Crimp, Richard Dyer, Daniel Harris. Mostly read theory, but if I get chance for fiction then Margaret Atwood is always good.

Films: Pink Flamingos, Female Trouble, Desperate Living, Polyester, Sebastiane, Paris is Burning, Uncle David, Shortbus, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, A Clockwork Orange, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Brief Encounter, Little Miss Sunshine.

TV: Green Wing, Smack the Pony, Campus, The Divine David, Eddie Izzard, The Simpsons.

Music: Kyary Pamyu Pamyu, Eurobeat, K-Pop, J-Pop, Bubblegum dance, 80s New Romantic etc., electro-pop... anything cheesy, trashy and terrible, basically.

Food: Yes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hairspray. Twitter. A library. Art. Red wine. My best friend.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where the next KFC is coming from
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating somebody else's food and drinking somebody else's wine
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
idk... I swallow?
You should message me if
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you're pro-queer, pro-body positivity, anti-slut shaming, pro-sex workers, anti-men, anti-Tory, pro-glitter.

Or just if you're really fucking hot.