Stuff I would like to do much much more of: clubbing in places full of weirdos, weird experiences generally, arty things, dressing up, urban exploration, going to gigs - tbh I led a sheltered life for a long time and now I'm really looking for pretty much any new experiences going. Bassoon lessons, kendo, BDSM clubs, ballet - anything. At least once (well, within reasonable limits. I think I'll give smoking meth and joining a Congolese militia a miss).
NOTE: I am primarily here to meet new chums. I guess it's possible that something more could eventually develop, but if I message you it's probably just with friends in mind cuz I want to meet new people generally. Buuuuut I tend to get on with girls better than boys for whatever reason so it'll probably still be mostly girls.
NOTE #2: am currently in an It's Complicated situation. I'm sure you don't care about the details much but in short, I'm not formally with someone but I.. kind of am in practice.
Other than that:
- Working in a charity shop (Mind)
- Studying for my psychology BSc (on the OU)
- Trying to make a living off being a graphic designer
- Learning the cello (currently rubbish; I already play guitar/bass)
- Lying in bed working through the large stack of comics next to it (mostly alternativey stuff.. I don't like superheroes)
TV: Young Ones, One Foot in the Grave, Blackadder, Python, Alan Partridge, Black Books, The X-Files, documentaries about horrible things.
I'm not very picky about food. But I am a bit of a sugar addict. I seem to eat an inordinate amount of sandwiches.
Music: punk, rock, a bit of metal. Given I was a teenager in the 90s there's usually a lot of grunge/riot grrrl stuff on my playlists.
For instance: my female friends seem to get a constant deluge of (usually highly unwelcome/creepy/generally horrifically inappropriate) messages whereas pretty much nobody ever messages me, and I wonder if this is because 1) by and large even online men feel pressure to do the searching/approaching and women are more likely to just wait for someone non-douchebaggy to message them or 2) I'm a bit of an acquired taste, or just not very attractive.
Or also: because of how many scary men there are out there compared to scary women, are men much more likely to meet someone off OKC if suggested? Is it a bit inappropriate to even suggest it or should you wait until someone feels comfortable enough with you that they ask *you*?
Oh god I dunno. I overthink everything as you can see :P
Realistically: looking at Facebook, watching Star Trek and smoking heavily. I KNOW HOW TO PARTY.
Also if you're politically very conservative or very religious it's not that likely we're gonna get on. Sorry.