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33 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Boy-shaped object currently living in London (originally from east Kent). I like making things (pictures, music, writing), arty things generally, nature and science. I love animals :) I have the loveliest cat ever and I've wanted a dog for years. Also sort of a corn snake but tbh they don't really do much (big snakes are a bit scary) so I probably won't.

I'm a musician, but so is everybody. I play guitar and bass and am trying to teach myself cello. I've been told I'm very good at making music but being a typical arty type I think everything I make is rubbish, so.. whatevs.

Vaguely seeking girl-shaped object currently living in London for shared misadventures, general silliness and watching rubbish films with. Being fairly weird and liking punk rock are both bonuses.

Note: I don't really like the whole dating thing, in the sense of meeting someone and going on formal dates and junk - I much prefer getting to know people just as friends and if something naturally evolves from that after a few months or whatever then cool.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to make some sort of sense of London, where I've just moved to. Being a country boy I'm a bit intimidated :S

Other than that:
- Working in a charity shop (Mind)
- Studying for my psychology BSc (on the OU)
- Trying to make a living off being a graphic designer
- Learning the cello (currently rubbish; I already play guitar/bass)
- Lying in bed working through the large stack of comics next to it (mostly alternativey stuff.. I don't like superheroes)
I’m really good at
I find it really hard to answer this because it's so hard to be objective about it. I know that's a boring answer, but yeah :P

The compliment I get told most often is that I'm good at listening and I'm a good friend. I guess because I don't tend to judge people.. I can usually see where pretty much anyone is coming from and can appreciate why they feel as they do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: very fond of W.S. Burroughs, Douglas Adams and Wodehouse, but mainly I read non-fiction, almost always about either science or history. Also more arty comics.

TV: Young Ones, One Foot in the Grave, Blackadder, Python, Alan Partridge, Black Books etc.) and documentaries.

I'm not very picky about food. But I am a bit of a sugar addict. I seem to eat an inordinate amount of sandwiches.

Music: punk (King Blues/Crass/Lawrence Arms/80s stuff/blah blah), grunge/riot grrrl, the Manics.. at the moment, a lot of Sonic Youth.
The six things I could never do without
My friends, my cat, my computer, my musical instruments (guitar and cello), Adobe software, my medicine drawer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Intellectual things which are, being honest, fairly inconsequential.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably looking at Facebook. Oh the excitement.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm genderqueer. I crossdress (sometimes). If that's a major problem for you probably best not to message me. I intentionally put my most girly photo as my main picture because I figure it's best to filter out those people ASAP.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you think I sound nice? Here to make friends as much as anything, so please don't think I'm gonna assume anything if you do message me.