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charmer1262000

26 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am sarcastic, fun, and perceptive.

My Self-Summary

I am a get-things-done kind of guy, I am the guy who will figure out why the cable isn't working, be the party organizer and make everyone mixed drinks, help move you into your apartment and even figure out how to get the oversized couch into the mini apartment in a 4th floor walk up! My secret talent may be packing luggage onto a bus- one of the many skills I have perfected as a former program director. I love my job and enjoy the work but sometimes it takes over and can get a little too much.

I love to read, watch tv (anything on HBO) and movies I love to have a good time, eat good food and go out with fun people. I love to cook and must say I make some mean pasta with ketchup or scrambled eggs.... and for the right girl I might whip out the Duncan Hines cake mix! I have a sarcastic sense of humor so people sometimes have trouble figuring out if I'm serious or not. I actually really do like to cook. If you can handle a little sarcasm and you're looking for a guy who actually wants to be in a relationship, send me a message!

What I’m doing with my life

I work at an NFP that provides services for people with disabilities. I am the director of the NY region, focusing on social recreational programs for individuals with disabilities, public relations and fund raising. Ideally I would like to run a small country, maybe kind of like a dictator, that seems like a fun job to have.

I’m really good at

sitting on my couch and going out and having a great time. I love traveling and taking scenic pictures, I'd like to pretend I'm decent at it. Photography has become a real passion of mine, I would love to learn more about it but I think I'm decent in my limited experience.

The first things people usually notice about me

My height, hair and lips. Once they get to know me I think they notice my sarcasm and brutally sarcastic sense of humor. People also always notice that my hands shake, no I'm not nervous it's just something I inherited from my grandfather. The truth is I barely even notice it.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like classic rock - I guess if I had to pick favorite bands - The Beatles, Sublime, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Queen - just to give you some ideas.
novels - usually historical fiction - Exodus is a great book! Also love John Irving books
all foods except bananas - literally I am not a picky eater but I will not go near a banana
my favorite movies are The Big Lebowski, most movies by QT.

The six things I could never do without

1. Good Food
2. TV
3. Books
4. Friends
5. Money
6. You maybe?

Seriously though I love to work and keep busy, I think without that I would be at a loss... at the same time I love lazy weekends.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Traveling the world.... would love to find someone fun to take off with every now and then. So far, I've been to some great places but I'm definitely looking to add to my list.
Love thinking logically and rationally as opposed to thinking from emotion and I try to learn something from every experience.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends or watching the Yankees!!!! Love to try new restaurants, good food, drinks in bars, meeting new people and just having a good time. Sometimes the week is so draining I save all that for Sat night and just need to chill....

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I actually have a great story, but.... you need to ask!

For right here, I don't trust people easily and it takes me a lot to gain trust so that I let people in. Please be patient.

You should message me if

You like what you read and want to know more. I'm pretty laid back, if you want to have a good convo message me.