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charmingtosay

27 Greensboro, NC Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:52am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmm...me stuff? I'm paler than most anyone you know. Animal obsessed, dogs especially. I'm crazy about colors, but I wear black almost every day (dress code). Unintentionally and hopelessly quirky, but embracing it. Super talkative. I'm an ex-academic, but still intellectually inclined (hint: I took philosophy classes during the summer in high school for fun). I'm both very shy and very outgoing. Feminist, feminine, progressive, compassionate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a cosmetologist. Hairdresser, chiefly, but I also do makeup.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
How does anyone answer this without coming off super self involved?

That aside, I'd say I'm really good at being a friend. I give a lot to the people I love, and I have a therapist personality. Which would explain why that's originally what I had planned on doing with my life. I love to sing and dance. Like. A lot. Rather more rarely than I'd like, I get crafty. Then, of course, I consider myself fairly skilled in all things hair and makeup.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the hair. It's usually some bold color or other.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Harry Potter, Sookie Stackhouse novels, Anne Rice, Mercedes Lackey, Sharon Shinn, Prozac Nation, Rilke, I'm With the Band, Madeleine L'Engle, Mortal Instruments, Ella Enchanted, to name a few. I enjoyed some of the things I had to read for school like Cat's Cradle and The Unbearable Lightness of Being, but I remember little about them.

Movies: I grew up with thousands of them. My family speaks in movie quotes. So I'll just give a small sample: Warm Bodies, It's Kind of a Funny Story, Before Sunrise/Sunset, Harold and Maude, Garden State, Beauty and the Beast, Stigmata, Dracula 2000, Lost Boys, Singin' In the Rain, Rent, Help!, Empire Records, Almost Famous, Dazed and Confused, Real Genius, Saved!, Juno, Labyrinth, just about any Jane Austen or Shakespeare adaptation and other movies or miniseries of the BBC variety. I'm always up for your basic romcom, superhero movie, or the latest Judd Apatow crew effort. A movie good to pass the time ranges from the clever stuff to the stuff that turns your brain into goo.

TV: Criminal Minds, True Blood, The L Word, Buffy, Firefly, SVU, Castle, Being Human, Skins, Agent Carter, Lost Girl, Lie to Me, Reign, The Musketeers, Grimm, Once Upon a Time, Big Bang Theory.

Music: too much. My favorite band is Jump, Little Children. A few other loves include The Beatles, Metric, Death Cab, The Decemberists, The Shins, Phoenix, Something Corporate, Tegan and Sara, Ani DiFranco, Joni Mitchell, Jethro Tull, The Dresden Dolls, Regina Spektor, House of Fools, Jonas Sees In Color, The Avett Brothers, Does It Offend You Yeah?, and Stars.

Food: Brazilian churrascaria, fondue, breakfast food, meat and potatoes. I went to Italy once and decided I would be happy if my food were imported from there for the rest of my life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm pretty sure I have more than 6, but:

Cute animals
Climate control
Real friends
Self expression
Modern medicine
Hugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Over analyst here.

I often wonder about the gap between everyone's minds and how it's possible to ever bridge it. I wonder about the goodness in people and how much of it there really is. I wonder how people receive the things I say and do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often working. But if you mean what I do on a typical night of extra free time, it depends. Occasionally I go for beer with a friend or out to some event. More commonly, I stay home and relax with a book, movie, or show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not if there are like 150 pages of them, but sometimes I actually read all the questions someone answered.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a good person with an open mind and some fun ideas.

I'd rather you didn't if:
You're a couple looking for a "guest star."
You're bicurious and looking for an experiment.
You're going to be crass. I'm not a prude, but what ever happened to just hanging out and seeing where something goes organically? Why is there no middle road for people between looking for a committed relationship and sniffing out a sexual partner like a freaking bassett hound?