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charmingtosay

26 F Charlotte, NC

My Details

Last Online
Jan 18
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmm...me stuff? I'm paler than most anyone you know. I'm crazy about colors, but I wear black almost every day (dress code). Unintentionally and hopelessly quirky, but embracing it. I'm an ex-academic, but still intellectually inclined (hint: I took philosophy classes during the summer in high school for fun). I'm very friendly, but people seem to think I look closed off/sad/worried when I'm not engaged in conversation. Anyone who gets to know me well enough or sees me when I'm particularly comfortable will know I'm gooftastic. I'm both very shy and very outgoing. I'm pretty sure one day all the thoughts in my head are going to make it explode.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in school at Paul Mitchell. I was pursuing a degree in Atlanta for psychology for a couple years when I quit because I realized and accepted that what I really want to do is cut hair. I still think I would've been an awesome therapist, though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
How does anyone answer this without coming off as arrogant?

That aside, I'd say I'm really good at being a friend. I'm very loyal, and I have a knack for talking to people about their problems. I love to sing and dance. Like. A lot. Rather more rarely than I'd like, I scribble something or get crafty. In high school drama club, I was always the one from whom people begged for massages. And this is way stereotypically girly, but I love working with others' appearances in any way--from hair (color, cut, style) to makeup to clothes, etc. I'm often wrangled in as the style consultant.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the hair. It's usually some bold color or another.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Sookie Stackhouse novels, Anne Rice, Mercedes Lackey, Sharon Shinn, Prozac Nation, I'm With the Band, The Hedgewitch Queen, Entwined, The Ethical Slut, Ella Enchanted, to name a few. I enjoyed some of the things I had to read for school like Cat's Cradle and The Unbearable Lightness of Being, but I remember little about them. I just finished Letters to a Young Poet by Rilke, and now I'm plowing through more of his letters and poetry. It's really inspiring stuff.

Movies: I grew up with thousands of them. My family speaks in movie quotes. So I'll just give a small sample: Warm Bodies, It's Kind of a Funny Story, Before Sunrise/Sunset, Harold and Maude, Garden State, Beauty and the Beast, Stigmata, Dracula 2000, Lost Boys, Singin' In the Rain, Rent, Help!, Empire Records, Almost Famous, Dazed and Confused, Real Genius, Saved!, Juno, Labyrinth, just about any Jane Austen or Shakespeare adaptation and other movies or miniseries of the BBC variety. I'm always up for your basic romcom, superhero movie, or the latest Judd Apatow crew effort. A movie good to pass the time ranges from the clever stuff to the stuff that turns your brain into goo.

TV: I adore Criminal Minds, True Blood, and The L Word. I'm also a fan of Joss Whedon, SVU, Dead Like Me, Glee, Castle, Being Human, and Lie to Me. New discoveries/addictions include Grimm, Once Upon a Time, and Big Bang Theory.

Music: Sort of the same story as movies. I pretty much breathe the stuff. My favorite band is Jump, Little Children. A few other loves include The Beatles, Metric, Death Cab, The Decemberists, The Shins, Phoenix, Something Corporate, Tegan and Sara, Ani DiFranco, Joni Mitchell, Jethro Tull, The Dresden Dolls, Regina Spektor, House of Fools, Jonas Sees In Color, The Avett Brothers, Does It Offend You Yeah?, and Stars. For dancing, I can enjoy really catchy top 40 and hip hop type stuff, though I pretty much never put it on just to listen to. Like Rock Your Body by Justin Timberlake came on in my car recently when my hand fumbled on the dial while I was upping the volume for something on XM, and I was really having to remember to focus on the road because I couldn't seem to make my ass stop wiggling. :)

Food: My moods fluctuate. I'm also a kind of picky eater. I like a lot of types, though. Chipotle, BBQ, Brazilian churrascaria, fondue, Italian, Asian, what have you. I can find something I want to eat at pretty much any restaurant, but I'm not up for eating just anything someone puts in front of me. Pretty much always up for meat and potatoes or breakfast food, though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm pretty sure I have more than 6, haha.

Cute animals
Climate control
Real friends
Self expression
Modern medicine
Yoga
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I've been told that thinking too much is one of my best and worst qualities. It's like I have a little corner office in the back of my brain that analyzes everything as I go about my daily life.

I often wonder about the gap between everyone's minds and how it's possible to ever bridge it. I wonder about the goodness in people and how much of it there really is. I wonder how people receive the things I say and do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never really know. Generally with the boyfriend doing something like eating out, going to a movie, staying in for movies, or taking our dog to the dog bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not if there are like 150 pages of them, but sometimes I actually read all the questions someone answered.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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You're a good person with an open mind and some fun ideas. I'm in a relationship now, so I'm just looking for friends.