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chatoyanteuse

43 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hindi (Okay), Tamil (Okay), C++ (Poorly), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Injun gal living in New York. Did I really move here to escape the teeming masses? I wonder about that every now and then. Especially when I get an elbow in my side when I'm walking down the street... it's just like that friendly vibe from back home. Despite the complaints, I like New York a great deal. I'd only trade it for someplace warmer.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a partner at a large consulting firm, in the area of health care. Most of the time it's pretty interesting.

I love learning new things whether it's at work or outside. I'm particularly interested in creative stuff - I took a class in food writing last year, and metalsmithing this year (I can now anneal with the best of them).

For some reason I didn't learn how to swim when I was 5 like everyone else, so I'm fixing that now.
I’m really good at
Unfulfilled romances with writers. I rock at this.

Also, writing limericks
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading fiction. My last best read was Netherland by Joseph O'Neill. Other favourite books from the past: The Exception by Christian Jungerson and most things by Hilary Mantel.

On movies, one of my favourites is Exotica. I hated Tree of Life and I guess I'm in good company.

On TV, one word: Homeland. It's the best.

In music I’m listening to Visions by Grimes. I like The Shins too. I adore Black Box Recorder. Other old favourites: Imogen Heap, Laura Veirs, Delerium, old Ani DiFranco, Tori Amos, Lamb, BT, Zero 7, Massive Attack, Meshell Ndegeocello, Coldplay, Kate Bush, Thomas Dolby, Kraftwerk, Ryuichi Sakamoto.

You don't have to be one, but I’m vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Eggs, butter, cream, flour, sugar and chocolate. I thought you said on a dessert island.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to change human behaviour. What will make people eat more vegetables. Why having an overweight friend increases the chance of you being overweight. Optimism and its amazing impact.

How much I love my Sonos (go buy one *immediately*)
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinking a glass of wine and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hell, I'll admit three.

I don't own a hair dryer.
I don't wear pointy toed or high heel shoes
I used to watch Melrose Place (and think it's great TV!). Latest addition to my list of B grade shows: Ringer. At least Buffy's in it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you have a job. Please have a job. I've tried to date those guys who don't, and somehow it didn't work. You can spell and punctuate. Nirvana.

Also if you're funny and smart that would be very cool.

I have a deep attraction to nerds with social skills. I'm looking for something real.