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28 M Philadelphia, PA

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Last Online
Jul 21
Asian, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
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Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
There was a time, where my life somewhat resembled Mickey Rourke's. I too, have hung up those boxing gloves for the big screen(though I am behind the camera)

if there's a moment where a camera is not on my shoulder: Whitewater rafting, Muay Thai, climbing up a big rock known as a mountain, Olympic weightlifting, trying to invent new quirky fusion recipes, and blowing cash at Ikea.

I love girls with ethics.
What I’m doing with my life
*Grant writing, grant writing, grant writing.

I made this silly dream a long time ago that I would become a filmmaker. I'm now trying to live that dream, in hopes I get to envision new ones on screen. To pay the bills, I've had to broaden my genre to shooting things like reality tv, corporate video, etc etc. Along the way though I score cool gigs like shooting PBS like docs or roller derby girls running over each other. At the end of the day, all my shoots give me the opportunity to see and experience new worlds I would otherwise never know. Considering I'm able to do that and afford Belgian Beer, I'm thankful.

Traveling whenever I can. There is so much out there, and I want to see it all. I am mildly obsessed with climbing different mountains around the world. Recently I got to chase down a childhood dream, and cartwheeled up(and down) Mount Fuji.

Riding lobster boats are the bomb too.
I’m really good at
Throwing my kettlebell. Cheering for my beloved Mets team, as they flail and fail. Taking photos of people at awkward moments of their day.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am ethnically ambiguous. I've passed for mexican, brazilian, columbian, inuit, native american, russian, you name it. All are wrong though. Hint: A part of me was raised in Hong Kong.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - How to Deal with Difficult People (a Borders exclusive!), The Good Earth, Things Fall Apart.

Music - The Hype Machine website, The Gaslight Anthem, Ra Ra Riot, Lykke Li, Justice, The Naked and Famous, Weezer, Florence and the Machine, Fitz and the Tantrums, Jose Gonzalez, The Cure, Social Distortion, Hedwig & the Angry Inch Soundtrack, Elliot Smith, Portishead, Dead Kennedys, Sigur Ros, Tegan & Sara, Bush, Aimee Man, Tom Petty, Depeche Mode, Yelle, and of course, the one hit song by The Proclaimers.

TV-: How to Make it in America,Kitchen Nightmares made by BBC, not that FOX crack.

Movies- Chungking Express, Ondine, Amelie, Brick, The Host, About Schmidt, Thumbsucker, Ratatouille, The Graduate, Talk to Her, Robocop, Slumdog Millionaire, Pans Labyrinth, Elephant Man, Mrs.Doubtfire, Eternal Sunhine of the Spotless Mind, Shortbus, Edward Scissorhands, The Five Obstructions, The Bicycle Thief, The Science of Sleep, The Birdcage, Sideways, Oldboy, Run Lola Run, The Crow, Dark City, American Beauty, Hellboy, V for Vendetta, Shuan of the Dead, Wild at Heart, the Exorcist, Man on Wire, The Fly, Cinema Paradiso, Head On, Perfume, and very embarrassingly, Shopgirl.

Food- Soup dumplings. Lemon Tea. Korean Fried Chicken. Schwarma. LOBSTER. *I'm really big into juicing now.....the kind with no needles but lots of greens.
The six things I could never do without
Cinema, music in mp3 form, the wholesale line of Apple products, a picture taking device, Aviator Sunglasses, and insomniac like nights.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Zoos I have yet to visit. The world and how it works. That special girl who will run through red lights with me, Wes Anderson style.
On a typical Friday night I am
My goal is to never have a typical friday night anymore.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find the Chris Brown "wedding dance entrance" romantic.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a happy, healthy, genuinely kind human being.

You think you could imagine yourself hiking through Kashmir with me!