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checkitout1913

34 M Atlanta, GA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:43pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I wake up most mornings with an overwhelming sense of gratitude. I have been and continue to be so lucky. I was born in the right place, at the right time; and my life's path has taken me to the right places with the right people. Though I have put in some hard work I don't feel I deserve my successes, and I certainly don't deserve most people in my life; current and former. This gratitude usually manifests itself in excessive smiling, being extraordinarily hard to anger, and wanting to take full advantage of this amazing situation I've been afforded.

My father is my hero: Always has been; and if I live half as meaningful a life as he did, and marry a woman like my mother I will have lived a full life.

I make it a point to have fun regardless of the task in front of me. I can be a little irreverent, completely ridiculous, a bit of a prankster, and I tend to push boundaries... In a good way.

I've done almost everything in life I've wanted to, to this point... minus 4 things. I've seen a good bit of the world. I plan to have a completed bucket list, and have seen all the world has to offer by the time it's all over.

Diversity is important to me. I care about how someone's beliefs play out in their life. I'm open minded in the real sense: I listen and consider ideas people have that are different than what I've come to believe.

Romanticly I'm not looking/waiting for just a partner or a lover. I'm looking for someone that I'm moved by; that is more than just attractive traits, wrapped in an attractive body, with a sharp mind.

Speaking of attractive traits some are: Generic human decency -- Bonus for: Intelligence/brilliance (Aptitude trumps achievement in my book), playfulness, ability to commiserate, edge, athleticism, AND being able to dance... like really dance... Any former B-girls or ballerinas out there? FYI: I offer the same in spades.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the end of a career in the Finance/Banking industry. Deliriously happy to be devoting myself to projects that really matter to me, and have some social value.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, making people feel welcome, scrabble/words with friends/-- newly added Ruzzle (seriously I'm thinking bout taking my talents pro), coaching, being hyper-observant
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I seem stoic until I open my mouth... then shit gets cray.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Faulkner. I don't read much fiction at all. I like historical works and Biographies; especially about US institutions and/or US historical figures.
Movies - More a Netflix aficionado: A lot of Documentaries usually dealing with Education, Health, or the food industry. Also trash: Dr. Who, Walking Dead, Archer, Code monkeys (greatest show in history no one knows about), Anything with Ricky Gervais, Louis CK, Z. Galifianakis, David Cross, or Jason Bateman (I like looking at his face, and would probably do him if given the chance).
Music - All over the place - Today I listened to: Ray Lamontagne, Fun, Lil Wayne, Florence and the Machine, Lupe Fiasco, and LP... Tomorrow will be completely different.
Food - Yes... I like culinary adventures. My last food adventure was finding the "best" burger in the A.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Earth
2. Fire
3. Wind
4. Water
5. Heart
6. .....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The "spooky action" of distant entangled particles... How to stop women from taking "selfies" with the duck face... seriously... STOP IT. How to stop the Harlem shake from ever happening again... How to save the world, in my own way, without loosing myself in the process. How to not be stalked.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying not to get coerced into going out with friends... And then later being out with friends. (concert, event, lounge, etc)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been in a musical production... or two.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can dance. You are only cray, and not cray cray. You like going to Hawks games. You like going to concerts. You want to explore. You'd like to share good conversation.