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30 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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Hi I'm Jon, a cheeky, clear communicator, with a brain not entirely in his pants. So I heard this is where the open-minded, intelligent, feisty women hang out...

+ You work hard, know what you want, speak your mind and aren't caught up in materialism.
+ You're rooted in the feminine, a bit wild and have diverse interests and passions.
+ You value being active more than drinking and want to share precious time with a man who treats you as an unique equal and is fully present when you're together, but you don't 'need' one...

I am passion and creation, reason and spontaneity, confidence and pushing boundaries... resisting temptation until overwhelmed... tenderness, roughness, control and surrender.

If it's true you are what you eat, I'm also a firm breasted extra virgin, colourful and full of vitality with well toasted nuts.
What I’m doing with my life
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Putting unexpected items in the bagging area of life, self-awareness, shouting 'freedom' from mountain tops, dancing whilst cooking, working on emotional intelligence, questioning assumptions, yoga, making art, food growing, weaving dangerously at speed between bad drivers on a mountain bike, hanging out with conscious positive people.

As part of a mission to do something new a week I've acted on kids TV, taken a 'Mastery' course in communication, relationships and sex, and tried stand-up... as you can see there's more to learn.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Find out...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look like a non-aging boy band member.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Occasionally fiction... a favourite being that one about Jesus. I also enjoyed Eats, Shoots and Leaves, although I thought it would be a critique of modern man.

Fight Club, Inglourious Basterds, anything by Luc Besson.
Nature /science docs, drama like GoT, Breakin Bad, 24.

I listen to this often:
From piano breaks, jumpy D&B and jazz to classical... Friendly Fires, Gil Scott-Heron, Goldfrapp, Rene LaVince, Little Dragon, Orbital, Pendulum, Brookes Brothers, Alice Russell, The Avalanches, Chemical Brothers, Curtis Mayfield, Dirty Vegas, Jungle, The Prodigy, The Apples, War Paint, Bag Raiders, Crystal fighters.

Rainbow salads, chicken, fishcakes, pine nuts... I have a serious one bag-a-week habit which I developed whilst staying with nuns in Tibet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Bacon, or cheese, or cake...or cheesecake, no bacon
Inappropriate humour and sarcasm
Breaking the rules
The unexpected
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Male-female dynamics
How erotic kissing can be
Building a woodland loveshack
Meditation and how to be more witty
Whether fat men get lardons [mmm bacon]
Whether junk food should contain contraceptives
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once chased by riot cops whilst doing my bit for the planet. Also despite OkC personality analysis, I love a bit of romance as well.
You should message me if
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You nodded at the beginning, laughed in the middle and love a happy ending... and you take my preferences with a pinch of salt.

You understand spirit, energies and the power of the feminine.

You want to explore deeper within the 'third' that is an intimate connection.

Ps. I'm currently researching factors affecting matches... apparently early 30s are more desirable than 38, at least with the under 40s and drink plays a factor, no surprise there.