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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:22am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So I heard this is where the intelligent feisty women hang out...

Well hello, I'm Jon, a cheeky, creative, open communicator, into living consciously with lots of laughs. Passionate about the environment and heavily motivated by cheese, with decent man skills.

I am confidence and vulnerability, reason and spontaneity... pushing boundaries, resisting temptation until overwhelmed... sensuality, roughness, control and surrender... Occasionally, I'm a bit of a tool too [grins].

If it's true you are what you eat, I'm also a firm breasted extra virgin, colourful and full of vitality with well toasted nuts.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Putting unexpected items in the bagging area of life, shouting 'freedom' from mountain tops, dancing whilst cooking, questioning assumptions, yoga, making art, food growing, weaving dangerously at speed between bad drivers on a mountain bike, exploring relationship anarchy..

As part of a mission to do something new a week I've acted on kids TV, Learned Orgasmic Meditation, taken a 'Mastery' course in communication, relationships and sex and tried stand-up... as you can see there's more to learn.

Aside from all that I have a day job in the environment sector and run a couple of side ventures engaging kids in nature.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Find out... (I am trouble)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Occasionally fiction... a favourite being that one about Jesus. I also enjoyed Eats, Shoots and Leaves, although I thought it would be a critique of modern man. If Buddha Dated, Timeless Simplicity, Japanese Zen poetry #obscurehighbrowinterest

Fight Club, Inglourious Basterds, anything by Luc Besson.
Nature /science docs, drama like GoT, Breakin Bad, 24.

I listen to this often:
From piano breaks, jumpy D&B and jazz to classical... Friendly Fires, Gil Scott-Heron, Goldfrapp, Rene LaVince, Little Dragon, Orbital, Pendulum, Brookes Brothers, Alice Russell, The Avalanches, Chemical Brothers, Curtis Mayfield, Dirty Vegas, Jungle, The Prodigy, The Apples, War Paint, Bag Raiders, Crystal fighters.

Rainbow salads, chicken, fishcakes, pine nuts... I have a serious one bag-a-week habit, developed whilst staying with nuns.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Bacon, or cheese, or cake...or cheesecake, no bacon
Inappropriate humour and sarcasm
Exploring, challenge and the unexpected
Connection, intimacy and hugs
The great outdoors
Hot passionate slow & intense, or rough beasty sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once chased by riot cops whilst doing my bit for the planet. Also despite OkC personality analysis, I love a bit of romance and prefer intimate groups and authentic connection to chit chat.

I'll lull you into a false sense of security with my innocent boyish looks, then flirt with you outrageously until you blush... then make you blush a lot more.
You should message me if
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You smiled at the beginning, laughed in the middle and love a happy ending... and don't mind the odd awful joke.