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cheekys

40 / F / straight / Single

Lancaster, Pennsylvania

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am intelligent, unusual, and smart-assed.

My Self-Summary

I am a 40 year-old divorced mom. I have two boys, ages 13 and 19, and I'm not looking to have any more! I've been having a great time being single, and re-discovering myself. My life is often chaotic and fun, and I like it that way. I enjoy reading, Guitar Hero, some tv, and photography. I am always in the middle of several projects at once. Sometimes it's an art-type thing, sometimes a building project, or sometimes a gardening project. I am always coming up with ideas and plans, although I admit that they don't always get done!

I like people who are intelligent, funny, and sarcastic. I like to laugh....and match wits! I enjoy verbal sparring, and smart-asses. I enjoy discussing the two topics most people say never to discuss...politics, and religion.

I'd like to make it clear that I am not here for casual sex. Also, I am a plus-size girl, so if that is a turn-off for you, look elsewhere! :)

You can also see me at www.myspace.com/cheekystacye

What I’m doing with my life

I recently went back to school....how cool is that? I love being a student, even though it makes it hard to keep up with the rest of my life! I still work part-time, and do the mother thing....no rest for the wicked, I guess!!

Mostly, I just enjoy my life and try to have as much fun as I can along the way. I try not to worry too much about things, or spend my time on negativity. Life is too short to dwell on the things I cannot change. I do however spend some time dwelling on the things I CAN change, and I like to do what I can to make a difference in this world.

I often think of chucking it all and going to live like a gypsy. I like to keep myself open to all of the possibilities there are in life. I tend to only set short to mid-term goals, because experience has shown me that life can throw you curve balls and you may end up somewhere totally different than you expected to be. The trick is to be able to adapt.

I’m really good at

everything......

Well, don't we all think that??

I'm good at being a friend,conversation, and making people laugh. I am good at sexual innuendo. I'm not so good with being politically correct, or keeping my opinions to myself. I am good with animals. I am not so good with little children. I am good with grammar and proofreading. I am not so good with math. I am good at being positive. I am not so good at being patient. I am good at seeing the possibilities in almost anything. I am not so good at staying inside the box.

The first things people usually notice about me

Hmmm...I would say my hair,because it changes colors frequently, and my friendliness...I'm not afraid to talk to anyone I meet.
It's been recently brought to my attention that my lips are noticeable...I dunno, I never thought much about them.

Maybe my wry wit and slightly sarcastic attitude?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books would be a huge list, but a few are The Stand (or anything by Stephen King, for that matter!), anything by Laurell K. Hamilton, all Edgar Allan Poe, William Shakespeare, Anne Rice, and Anne McCaffrey. I also admit a love of all Dr. Seuss books, with Green Eggs and Ham being my favorite. Also, Are You My Mother. Gone With the Wind is an oldie, but still a very good book.

I am Wiccan, so I read a lot of books related to that.

My favorite movies are Rocky Horror Picture Show, the original Willy Wonka, Dogma, and the Highlander movies. Mr. Frost was a pretty good movie. All of the Lord of the Rings movies of course, and Harry Potter, the books and the movies.
A favorite classic of mine is Behind the Green Door.

Food....I like just about all food. Lol. I love to cook, and I tend to not follow recipes, but rather experiment with different flavors and see how it turns out. For the most part, my experiments turn out pretty well.

The six things I could never do without

This is a difficult one, because my needs are not the same all of the time. I can only say what my six things are right now.
1.books 2.time to think 3.coffee 4.my computer 5.fire 6.sex

This list could change, and might include music, my cell phone (it is my only phone at this point), beer, my job, people, my camera, my friends, or my dog, at any given time.

Car shows. I am a huge muscle car fan, and now that the weather is warming up, I am looking forward to car show season!! Also, warmer weather means pow-wow season and spiritual retreats!!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My life, where it's going, why the world is going crazy, how I can solve everyone's problems, why are we here?, why doesn't everyone get that I am the center of the universe??

My mind goes a million miles an hour all the time, so it's hard to say what I'll be thinking at any given point in time. I can actually focus intensely when I have to. I just choose not to most of the time. I've pulled some of my best thoughts out of my brain when it was a whirling maelstrom of chaos (which is frequently...).

On a typical Friday night I am

Now that the weather has settled, Friday nights usually find me out on the patio grilling, or having a late night fire....I LOVE fire! It causes instant intimacy on a dark starry night....people open up and feel comfortable gathered around a fire. Probably something primal in that.

Saturday nights are another story...if I'm not out on a date, then I'm hosting a game night. What fun! Board games, video games, booze and my favorite people...how can we not have a good time?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Much to my chagrin, my personality awards at the bottom of my profile are pretty damn accurate. I'm kinda surprised.

I'm one of those people who believe in most things that other people do not..you know, Bigfoot, Nessie, that kind of thing. I think it is hugely egotistical of humans to think that we know or even see everything that is in existence....what creature in their right minds wouldn't try to avoid us? When we do see something new and unusual, we devote time to hounding it until we catch it...and then do what with it?

Also, I secretly lust for power tools. I have one or two, but am working on building my collection...imagine the devastation and destruction I could cause then!!

You should message me if

....you like pina coladas, and getting caught in the rain...kidding. Or not. I like pina coladas well enough, and on a warm day, it is not unusual to see me out playing in the rain with the rest of the kids...

If you'd like to conversate about anything remotely controversial, books, religion, or the state of the world.

If you are intelligent, like sassy women, and aren't easily intimidated. Not that I'm at all intimidating.....But I can admit that I am not a girl for the faint of heart!!