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58 Lafayette, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45-63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:26pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a creative person with a lot of pursuits - and I enjoy activities from keeping fit to cooking to exploring new places. I consider myself a lifelong learner. I enjoy family ties and good friends and am always looking for another adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
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After years of corporate work, I am on my own as a contractor and exploring new choices. This is cool! I am making time for writing and arts, volunteering, and getting published. I'm doing local trips with friends, and taking photos and hikes and exploring more of California. I also spend time when possible in my native Northwest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think communication is a strong suit for me, and I'm a good collaborator. I've been told I'm organized but I'm not totally convinced of that. I know my friends feel that I'm a good partner in pursuits. I'm a decent athlete and love to get out and enjoy the world. I am definitely an acute observer and appreciator of art, music, great writing, surroundings, and beauty in general, whether it be in dance, nature or automobiles.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm friendly and smile easily. People consider me warm but I can also be a bit reserved. I have a lot of enthusiasm. I also look for humor in all situations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love American historical works from Angle of Repose by Wallace Stegner to any Mark Twain to Studs Terkel. I always want to learn about other cultures. I like comedy especially. I love movies of various types but nothing too horrifying (in content or quality.) In music I enjoy classic rock and some newer standout talents -- and any great guitarist whether Clapton, SRV, Santana or classical. I'm an omnivore and love French, Italian, Thai, Japanese, Chinese and Southern cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family and great friends
things to look forward to: trips, good projects, events
beauty; enjoying gorgeous surroundings
stuff to investigate and stuff to learn
I'm a foodie -- great food, wine, dark chocolate
flora and fauna including my gorgeous felines
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A bunch of topics of interest
how wonderful it is to have a great new phase in life
planning something fun
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making dinner with friends, meeting at some local great restaurant, doing something cultural, relaxing
You should message me if
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you think our interests might mesh, and we have a lot to talk about. Also, if you have three magical attributes: sincerity, super smarts and a sense of fun.