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40 M Baton Rouge, LA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
***I'm working in Oakland for two weeks and just looking for people to hang out with. Maybe have dinner....****

I'm from small town Louisiana, born and raised in the piney woods of Vernon Parish. I grew up raising pigs and chickens and growing potatoes.

My dad owned a hardware store and I learned customer service in the days before computers or internet.

My family moved to the Cajun part of Louisiana where I learned to eat boudin, jambalaya, and cochon du lait.

I went to college on the Northshore of Lake Pontratrain at a Catholic Benedictine monastery, but I'm no longer Christian; I'm a little bit pagan, little bit Taoist, and a little bit monotheistic. It's complicated.

I've been a teacher, worker drone, and other things before ending up in engineering. I love electrical design - I get to be an engineer with a liberal arts degree. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying to get my guitar playing chops back to where they once were.

I'm going to Oakland for two weeks!
I’m really good at
Listening, cooking, being quiet, martial arts, reflecting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I dunno. You tell me....but I've been told I light up a room when I walk into it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My bookshelf has a huge selection of material: Fantasy, Sci-fi, Military history, history, art, religion, philosophy, and music. There are a small group of books that have really changed the way I look at the world: "I Heard the Owl Call My Name", "The Great Divorce", "To Kill a Mockingbird", The Tao Te Ching. Strangely enough, I'm also a fan of Louis L'amour

TV Shows: Mad Men, Vikings, Game of Thrones, Big Bang Theory, Food network, Buffy, Firefly, Doctor Who.

I love all types of food and am always willing to try something new. I love to cook (and it shows...) and love to fix a new recipe for friends.

Movies I love: The Mission; Hot Fuzz, The Fifth Element, Almost Famous, anything by Mel Brooks, Star Wars (not the prequels!), The Last Samuri.

Music: you will find just about anything in my itunes library. Sinatra to Zeppelin; Eminem to Gregorian Chant; Bach to bluegrass. You will not find, however, current country music (bleah), nor will you find opera. I almost hate to admit this, but I've been a bit of an 80's pop kick lately.
The six things I could never do without
Streaming Music
my guitar
my own space
On a typical Friday night I am
At home. Help me change that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still have one of my baby teeth. I was born without the adult tooth, and it has never fallen out. Strange but true!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are interesting and don't mind a person who has some scars and stories of life, both good and bad.