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42 M Austin, TX

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Christianity, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
"The night life ain't a good life, but it's my life."
If you know the song, that's a good start. It's also true ... I work late, not a big party guy, but the restaurant life means that when I try to date women with 9-5 jobs, we never see each other, and it just never works out.

I've been all over the place and seen most of what life has to offer, both good and bad. I wouldn't trade that experience, because it makes me feel as if I understand life and other people that much better as a result. Plus that, I have a pretty strong sense of adventure, and always want to see and try new things, especially as pertains to food, music, and travel.

I just moved back home to Texas after 8 years in LA (plus 3 in Chicago and London). I've been away from family for a long time now, and I feel like I'm missing out on time with them that I can't get back.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a chef, which means I work a lot, and when I'm not at work, I still think about work a lot. To be successful at what I do, there isn't much of an option, really.

I love what I do, and I wouldn't change it, although at some point, when I'm older and ready to slow down a little, I figure I'll do something simpler like open a little cowboy/biker bar/bbq pit.
I’m really good at
cooking, singing, reading, laughing, thinking, telling stories about my crazy life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really quiet at first, but once I get comfortable and open up, or have a few drinks, the stories start to flow, and you can hardly shut me up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Bernard Cornwell, Umberto Eco, James Lee Burke, Anthony Burgess, Hunter S Thompson, Charles Bukowski

Music: classic/outlaw/Texas country, garage rock, punk rock, Waylon Jennings, Willie Nelson, Bob Wills, David Bowie, Lou Reed, Iggy Pop, T. Rex, bauhaus, Sugar Shack, Hank Thompson, Hank Snow, Loretta Lynn, Billy Joe Shaver, Ryan Bingham, Whitey Morgan, RT & the 44s, Chris Knight, Guy Clark, Hayes Carll, Robert Earl Keen, Townes Van Zandt, Morning 40 Federation, Preservation Hall Jazz Band, Rebirth Brass Band, Kermit Ruffins, Louis Armstrong, Tom Waits, oblivians, Dirtbombs, MC5, Bad Brains, Bellrays, Clash, Dick Dale, Detroit Cobras, Gogol Bordello, Gram Rabbit, Murder City Devils, New York Dolls, all kinds of stuff.

Food: All of it.
The six things I could never do without
a smile, a laugh, a story, a knife, a flame, fun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
food, obviously. Aside from that, twisty country roads, deserts, going home, great songs
On a typical Friday night I am
Working late! But on a Sunday or Monday I am probably barbecuing and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Why ruin all the surprises?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like to go out and you're not a picky eater!