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chehaw

42 New Brunswick, NJ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A line from a poem by Warshan Shire has spoken quite loudly to me--My alone feels so good, I'll only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude.

That's who I'm looking for--someone sweeter than solitude. I want to be in a relationship, to give, to share, to be close to someone--but I'm not going to be in a relationship solely to not be alone. I'm looking for a friend, an ally, a lover and confidant, and I want to be the same for someone else. It should go without saying that I'm an introvert--INTP to be exact. And I'd classify myself as a quirkyalone--check out Sasha Cagen if you want to find out what that is.

What else...

I run and I bike--I just finished my first half marathon, and a 20-mile bike ride is a good morning spent. Call me crazy, but it's fun. Having a running/cycling partner would be great. Or having someone who understands the need to run/bike at the crack of dawn.
I like philosophical talks, reading, watching sports, hoping in the car for a drive.
I listen to jazz and electronica.
Geekiness and nerdiness are good things.

I'm a great friend.
I'm loyal.
I'm a good listener.
A little shy at the start, but I warm up fast--if you don't want me to drone on about the pleasures of Brussels, don't talk about Brussels.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for a newspaper--yes, they are still around... And I run and I bike--for fun, and to keep me out of trouble. Figuring out which races I'll do next year--and where. Generally, keeping my shit together the best way I can, and trying to live the questions...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
really listening...
The first things people usually notice about me
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The eyes, and the shaved head...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Quirkyalone: A Guide for Uncompromising Romantics; Zen and the Art of Poker, The Hero and the Blues, Comfortable With Uncertainty, The Places That Scare You, the Art of Power

Music: Lots of jazz, lots of electronica

Food: trying to keep it healthy, but will never turn down a good burger
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, a hat, my family, a book, my bicycle, good friends...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Designing the next phase in my life...and how a certain song got into my head...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Quietly enjoying a meal out. Or driving around and decompressing... Or getting ready to run a race...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Yeah, no, let's not
You should message me if
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you're intrigued by the idea of dating a unicorn--and a MAMIL