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43 Howard Beach, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 16
Hispanic / Latin, White
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I would love to find someone who has not lost that spark from our youth. Someone who is still a blast to be around and is not completely focused on career or finances would be awesome. I'm looking for someone who is responsible as an adult but can still enjoy life and realize that laughter and bonding is crucial in a relationship. All that other stuff is what makes the world move, but should not be all that you live for. Basically, someone who has a career/job but still held on to their artsy/creative/free spirit side would be sweet.
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now I'm basically making a huge life change. Being a former government worker for 20 years, I could not stand working another day in my position with no chance of upward mobility. I decided to take an early retirement and to finish my degree so I could move into a position with better advancement opportunities, and doing something I enjoy.
I’m really good at
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Computers, Card Games, Baseball/Softball, Puzzles, Making People Laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm very charismatic and have a very fun personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows: Arrested Development, Homeland, Newsroom, Parks and Rec, The League, Sonny, Wilfred, Walking Dead, Archer

As far as movies are concerned, I'm into Sci-Fi/Fantasy, documentaries are huge on my list, I like a lot of era set movies, tons of indie and foreign films, horror films are pretty good (the cheesier the better), comedy films are a good choice when I need a pick me up also.

I hate to say that as of late I have not been able to pick up a good book and dig in, but I am trying to change that. I'm open to any suggestions if anyone has a favorite they would like to share.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter, Pepsi, Pizza, My Cat, Friendship, Connections
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Winning the lottery, computers, how to better myself as a person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pretty much home relaxing and unwinding from the week. Nice glass of wine and a home cooked meal is always a nice way to end of the week.
You should message me if
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You can be an adult when the situation arises but also know how to have fun and get silly when the time calls for it.