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chemist12

63 / M / Straight / Single

Eugene, Oregon

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:48pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My sense of happiness is derived from my being at peace. Kindness I believe is a way of life. My curiosity gives rise to the questions I ask myself and others. All of these together enable me to embrace today with a sense of wonderment and awe.

I am happy, kind, and curious
What I’m doing with my life
As I find myself in the garden, I can't call it work for it is more like communion, I am reminded of how large and how very small I am. As a giant I often barge in on a community so small they are often overlooked. And yet one plant will make me feel so small as I admire its beauty and complexity.
I can't prove that there is a God,
but looking at a wildflower
I can't deny that there is one.
Who or what is God?
I don't know.
But holding a seed in my hand
I sense the creation and the love
of the creator.
I am thankful that I need not
prove the existence of God to anyone.
I am thankful that I am only
a gardener.

Spent the last month working in the Texas panhandle with cows.
I’m really good at
wondering why. It seems that with most everything else being good is the result of making mistakes, improving, and practice. Wondering why comes naturally.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm on time, usually early, and my picture matches what I look like.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"The Power of Kindness" and "What Children Teach Us" both by Piero Ferrucci. "The Art of Happiness" by the Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler. "Burro Genius" by Victor Villasenor.
Movies: Favorite of all time Lorenzo's Oil
Music: gospel, very selective of country, rock and roll of the 50's and 60's, instrumental, classical
Food: I don't like sea urchin! While I like just about everything else my occasional gout keeps me from enjoying some foods.
The six things I could never do without
Faith in that there is more to life than what I am able to prove. Forgiveness through grace for me and others.

Family and the sense of family that goes with it

Touch, having my heart and person feel the touch and the love that is shared

Identity and the integrity to maintain one's identity

Intimacy of heart, body, mind, soul, and kindness

Curiosity

"Grow you must!
Even if you outgrow
the life you love and know" anon
Each day I am in the garden
literally or metaphorically.
The dirt I track in and the lessons
learned keep me growing
and grow I must.

Cut away the dead,
remove the broken limbs,
prune the crossing branches.
Forgive those who have hurt us.
Heal our brokenness
as we forgive others.
Lead us not into temptation
that would interfere or restrict our growth
for grow we must.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
today and tomorrow and wondering how special they may be.

Who planted
the tree that became the cross?
the lillies of the valley?
the giant redwoods?
the wildflowers of the meadow?
the forgiveness in my heart?
On a typical Friday night I am
hoping that tomorrow will be sunny so I can work in the garden. One thing that retirement has afforded me is the luxury to enjoy the garden on sunny days and not to worry about what needs to be done when the rain is falling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an addiction to buying books. But then anyone who knows me knows that. So while I am an open book, I have boundaries and share my private world in context.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 55–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you want to meet me. I am rather selective when it comes to messaging people but reply regularly when I do.