I am also a big fan of travelling to various places both within China and abroad. I took trips to Italy,Greece, Switzerland, Germany and France and I absolutely loved them.
The kind of guy I am looking for is someone tall with a nice smile and a good sense of individual style. I always make an effort to dress well when I go out and so I appreciate that also in guys.
To continue with the ideal man description, he is confident but not arrogant and he has an interest in travel to far flung places.
He doesn't need to be at the top of the career ladder but he should be have some plans in mind about his future and what he wishes it to be.
He should be reasonably secure and very importantly, he must have good manners.