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45 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 32–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- Hispanic / Latin
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Catholicism, and laughing about it
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from high school
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
I'm very family-oriented and love spending time with my very large, extended family, as well as hanging out with friends and co-workers.
Before starting down the road to my current career, I was a line-cook, and know my around a kitchen(even the dish-washing sink), and although I haven't done much cooking in the last year or so, I am never shy about showing off in there and making a great meal.
Bike riding(pedal not motor)
tea-parties(My daughter is 5)
Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who either has her own kids(as I do), or is OK around other people's children. Basically, someone who could understand that my kids will be my very first priority at all times. I have them every other weekend, so those weekends would be shut-out for the most part, at least until a relationship was at 'that' point where we'd introduce our kids to each other.
Enjoying what we call "The small things", but should really be called the big things, like laughter, friendship, family and the occasional beer.
I was a cook for 12 years, before moving to a different career.
Movie: The Hunt for Red October.
TV: Game of Thrones, Shameless, Dexter, The League.
Music: Most everything except hard-core Rap or Country. Favorite is Alternative(or original New Wave - Joy Division, Roxy Music, Violent Femmes, The Cure, etc...)
Food: I'll try most anything once, but nothing can compete with my mom's homemade Mexican food.
5 - A football. 6 - Friday lunch and drinks with my co-workers at Pete's Tavern in SOMA.
When I might be ready to start dating again(was married for 13 years).
Must be 420-friendly.
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