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32 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Oct 11, 2013
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Graduated from two-year college
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Update 2.17.13
I'm busier than I want to be, yet keep adding my to my want-to-do-list. I work second shift and my weekend is currently Monday-Tuesday. Less than ideal hours, but a pretty great gig.
I'm new to the Bay Area, and new to bike commuting. Please, everyone use your turn signals and watch out for me and my biking buddies. It would suck if we meet by that kind of accident.
When not working or otherwise obligated to be somewhere, I prefer to find myself with a heart raised in downward dog, hands wrapped around a bell, bar, or barbell, cold feet warmed by slapping pavement, core challenged to keep hips in close on walls peppered with plastic. I'm on a self-imposed mission to find the best cigar, the most decadent chocolate, the most voluptuous glass of red wine, and the best Mexican joint within stumbling distance. All this to say that I am, a busy kid. Out of necessity and choice, I go full force pretty much until I collapse.
If you're looking for the girlfriend that comes home at the same time every night, is available for dinner/movie/dancing three nights a week and two weekends a month, I am not her. I'm probably still at work when you're eating, and I might not be in the state on the weekends. However, if you're looking for a kick ass girl to hang out with occasionally and maybe get jiggy with it (if the stars align), I just may be her.

Carry on...
My iPod is a never ending work in progress. I love to write, but
tend to do more thinking about writing than actual writing. I climb rocks and swing dance for fun. I also make magnets and knit and/or crochet. I'm currently good at making straight lines, with little to no intricate patterns; I'm a forever beginner.
I contradict myself quite often. I love thrift store shopping, and
thoroughly enjoy a good purge. I'm lightly pierced and somewhat tattooed and enjoy other...alternative activities. But nothing illegal.
I'm not here to find my future husband. I'm not here to find the
person I'll spend the rest of my life with. I'm here to, at best,
make some friends. If more develops, awesome. If not, that's fine too because I'll perv on your profile either way.
I'm attracted to older men (>35 ish, <48 ish), and although
I'm not opposed to getting to know someone my age (<35), I'm not likely to go into it looking for more than friendship. I consider myself non-monogamous. Not full on poly, not looking for a "family," but I do see myself dating and being involved with more than one person. Heads up.
My work week is Wednesday thru Sunday, and I start in the afternoon. When I get out is dependent on when I get things done, which has been anywhere from 9pm-2am. I know how to work on my car but very very rarely do so. I'm borderline vegan and love to cook and bake.
I also appreciate good grammar. While I realize that no one is
perfect and typos do happen and whatnot, if you don't know the difference between two too and to, or between their there and they're, I might have a hard time making it through your email. I'm also not too keen on 'lol-speak.' At least I think that's what it's called. If you drop all vowels and are always rotflyao, or lol at everything, I'm definitely going to have a hard time getting to the end of your message. Sorry, but 'tis true.
What I’m doing with my life
Climbing rocks (or plastic made to look like rocks), occasionally swing dancing, posing, crafting, working, working it, running, sweating like a maniac in Bikram Yoga, trying to drink enough water to recover.
I’m really good at
Staying busy? Yes. That.
Or climbing rocks. Or swing dancing. But I'm more just decent at those.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have holes in my face. (Other than the ones I came out my mama with.)
And that I'm nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't have a whole lot of time to read and/or go to movies. No TV, so I won't be able to engage in deep, meaningful conversation regarding the impact of the latest Dancing With The Stars episode. However, I do thoroughly enjoy cooking shows when I do find myself in front of the picture box with nothing else to do.
Music...anything that makes me want to move. So, pretty much anything. Currently rocking out to Brother Ali & Co. on Pandora.
Food...we'll talk food later. I'm vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Chocolate, unfortunately.
the essentials (air, water)
a good book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
writing, climbing, dancing, bondage. You know...the ush.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm in town, I'm probably swing dancing or taking a bath or tied up. If I'm not in town, I'm probably either swing dancing, rock climbing, or tied up, or with my famdamily.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My hair is shorter than what's in my pictures. I'll see what I can do about getting a recent one up. Otherwise, I'm pretty open. Most likely, if you ask, I'll tell.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't really like filling these out, you like rock climbing, swing dancing, or rope tying, you like writing, or gardening, or live music. Or if you are an apple connoisseur, or vegan/vegetarian, or if you can't imagine spending the next 5 years without peanut m&ms or dark chocolate. Or if you can be the d to my s. Or if you know what GGG is. (If you don't, please ask google. Or Jeeves. That's what he's there for.)