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46 San Diego, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 14
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Feeling a bit boxed in by some of thes OK Cupid questions as the moment..... ;-). Someone of them lack nuance, shall we say? I view life as full of possibilities and options. I've lived in many different places (midwest, east coast, deep south) but keep returning to San Diego - and try to take full advantage of the ocean and the weather. Most weekends in the summer you can find me swimming in La Jolla cove. I also enjoy running and have recently taken up yoga. Skeptical by nature, I tend to question most everything, and don't have a lot of patience for things like astrology, etc..... I am actually amazed that that is considered a relavent piece of information for this profile.

For me, real chemistry usually grows out of great conversation. I can find someone attractive, but not be attracted to them if we have nothing interesting to say to each other, or if we don't laugh together. And of course the reverse is also true - there may not be an immediate attraction, but sometimes a good conversation or two can change that. I don't think that we have to agree on everything - in fact, most interesting conversations involve at least some difference of opinion - but general life views should probably be somewhat similar. I don't see myself with a devoutly religious person, for example (and that includes New Age mysticism....)

I am pretty active physically, but I am not neccessarily looking for a partner who is. I have plenty of workout buddies, and also enjoy doing some of these activities on my own. Intellect is more important to me than physicality. Further, I think that it is healthy for two people in a relationship to have some separate interests and activities (but if you do happen to be a surfing/swimming/scuba-diving/yogi/runner, I wont complain....)
What I’m doing with my life
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I spent many years in the lab as a research scientist. Now am having fun traveling around and teaching business people about science.
I’m really good at
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Public speaking. I never have to imagine that my audience is naked (!).
The first things people usually notice about me
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That's a good question, I'll have to ask someone and get back to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Life of Brian, Big Bang Theory, Mad Men, The Sopranos. Amazingly unpicky about food, but I do enjoy ethnic food such as Indian, Afghan, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
swimming, running, thinking, talking, friends, coffee
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spedning time with friends &/or excercising
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have the same birthday as Jimmy Carter
You should message me if
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You're up for seeing if there's a spark over coffee & conversation.