I'm better at interaction rather than just writing about myself but here goes. I'm a woman in her mid thirties, I've been married for 17 years and have three kids. All preteen and teenage. I'm pansexual and polyamorous, and tend to adopt animals and people as I go. I've always been more open and have enjoyed learning about people. Their beliefs, culture, religion, ideals. Even just getting introduced into new genres in movies, new books, and music. I love trying new things but am also a home body. I enjoy cooking, watching movies curled up on the couch, or just writing and talking.

Some clarification might help in certain instances. When I say I am pansexual, I mean that the form has never mattered much. I have found myself attracted to men, women, transgender and everything in between. It however does NOT mean that I do casual sex. I don't. Some people do, more power to them. Myself, I have found I can not feel trusting enough to be physical with someone until there is a bond formed and a relationship in place. Emotions, typically deep emotions.

When I say I am polyamorous it does NOT mean I am cheating on my husband. My husband is well aware I am on here, as is my boyfriend. Both have seen my profile and if I choose to talk to someone more than a few times, they see that profile as well. It also does not mean I am looking for some hot woman to be involved with me and my husband/boyfriend. They can find their own dates. It also means I am not interested in dating couples. No offense, but I prefer getting to know someone as a person, an individual. While I don't rule out friends, or more, with a couple, I don't date couples. I date A person at a time. Which means no, I don't bring husband or boyfriend on a date, I appreciate the same courtesy. I have no problems meeting other relationships, just to get to know each other, but if dating is required then it is not going to work out.

Right now, I'm looking for more friends in my life. I'm not opposed to things becoming more, but I've moved in the last year and I have no real community. Being queer, is also difficult in this area! So friends, female friends would be nice, other moms to talk to, other dads, other queer folk! Just miss having a community.

With the kids older now, I'm working on my writing. I also do a lot of work in graphics and coding, but more graphics and writing than coding. I love to read, to write, and to talk to people. I role play in a lot of different genres and write fan fiction to get some ideas out. I enjoy just about all kinds of music and like to dance while I work, it keeps me motivated!

I'm doing fan fiction now, and I just got the best present for mother's day! A big ol' mixer! So baking! I'm going to try for bread. Here's hoping!

Cupcakes! Lately I've been working on baking all kinds of interesting recipes. I also like to cook, to write, to work on graphics. I love to try new things so I guess I'm good at being that!

I'd like to say my eyes. I've heard good things about them. However, if we're honest it's probably my t shirt. I have a few weird ones I like to wear so I'll hear, "Oh I like your shirt!" More than I hear about my eyes! Otherwise, my laugh.

Oh my goodness way too many to list! Movies, everything from old musicals, Fred and Ginger, Cole Porter, to stinky horror movies. Independent films, dark comedies. Books? I like the classics, I love sci-fi, fantasy. Music, dance music, techno, ethnic, pop, rock. Really rap is the only thing I'm not fond of, not since the 80s. And country is iffy. Food? I wish I had the palate to be a foodie! I like to try new things, I'm a carb addict and working on it!

Hmmm, lets see. . .
1. my family (kids, hubby)
2. friends/lovers
3. books
4. music
5. tea
6. a towel!

My writing. I'm trying to work on a novel but get distracted, I'm working on buckling down! I think about a lot of things actually, going through the news groups and discussing things. I like to discuss things, even if it becomes a little heated.

Don't really have a typical Friday. Sometimes I'm going to kids things, performances, clubs. Sometimes I'm hoping for an early night of just a movie and popcorn!

Ask, and find out. Most of the time I'm pretty open. I just prefer actually talking to people rather than rambling in these things.

You are interested in chatting, getting to know new people, want someone to hang out with, friends, more, less. I'm pretty flexible and will be honest with where I am in life myself.

Sometimes it's nice just to have a community, sometimes you have to make that community for yourself. I'm up for it if you are!