I’m a rock star and a dancing queen. I enjoy lots of things that don’t involve the couch. I speak three languages (okay including English and no I don't speak Spanish). One day I will have traveled to every continent on the planet (well, almost)... I started a battle with NY super fudge chunk… it won. I’m not above brainwashing and using large amounts of alcohol to achieve my goals. I’m short. Really short… like the taller midget cousin short so I prefer someone who can reach the glasses on the top shelf. I'm want to REALLY experience everything life has to offer... not just say it. I would like to get certified in skydiving... I started my pilot's license and haven't had the opportunity to finish... I love anything to do with the water... wakeboarding, sailing, skiing... basically I'm somewhat of an adrenaline junkie and I'm looking for someone with a little bit of crazy so I don't have to do it all alone.

My match will know fidelity is not just a show on the CW... more than likely wouldn't lack direction, not have a job or live in his parents basement after the age of 30... definitely would love the water, mountains, time at home watching movies just as much as nights out at a great pub with friends... wouldn't be glued to my side 24/7... must definitely love baseball, soccer and play some sort of sport... and wouldn't think camping involves a cabin...of course, all this is negotiable if he looks like Bear Grylls...

A couple of notes... If you have a mullet... I'm not now nor ever have been into 80s hairbands, muscle tees or fishing with dynamite. I have children... short of selling them on ebay... they are a part of the package... I am on this site to find someone to spend time with just like any other single woman in the world... I am not looking for a replacement dad.

Second, I was over 200lbs following a complicated pregnancy... for me, this was almost like gaining another me... I have lost a significant amount of the weight but do have more hard work in front of me. I am normally a very thin and highly active person. I love running and hope to run a marathon before I'm 40. I'm looking for someone who lives an active, fit lifestyle...

I'm am close to retirement from the military. I also keep promising myself I'll start my Masters soon. Other than that I spend my days wondering why the man of my dreams doesn't just knock on my door one day (and not be delivering a package).

making people laugh and cooking... food and jokes... if I could press my own grapes... I'd have the best combo for a good night.

My smile or my humor. I'm always joking around and trying to make people laugh.

BOOKS: Anything by Tom Robbins and Slaughterhouse Five MOVIES: Too many to decide from. MUSIC: Again, I am into a lot of different genres. FOOD: Anything Asian (Indian, Korean, Thai, etc, etc). I like Italian a lot but actually eating in Italian spoiled me on the American versions.

1. My family (okay easy answer) 2. Adventure 3. Friends 4. Vanilla soft serve 5. Coffee 6. My camera (I'd probably have to add my blackberry and new adventures if I got a number seven and eight).

world domination, my stint on ANTM, keeping all the men off my doorstep... LOL Okay, dumb answer... but I guess I think about all the normal things everyone does... family, work, friends, finding someone to make my life complete.

depends on my mood... typically though Friday evenings are my time to unwind from the week.

It wouldn't be private if I was willing to share it. You'll have to get to know me to find out anything I consider private.

I sound like someone fun and interesting that you would want to get to know better. Or you feel it necessary to lavish me with praise and adulation... I'll take that too. LOL