I'm saddened I need to do this. I wouldn't call myself bisexual. I felt that that was just the most honest of the three choices. I would call myself questioning. And since I am questioning my sexuality, I really am interested in talking to women who are interested in being in a committed relationship. So please, if you're a guy who just wants to talk about sex, don't contact me.

I was in a serious relationship with a male (Richard in the pictures) for 9 months. He was immensely sweet, but I couldn't bring myself to touch him. I have begun to wonder if this could be because I am a lesbian. So, as stated above, I am questioning. I do hope I am, though, because otherwise I'm afraid I'm just crazy. :-P

I am, admittedly, very responsible and I expect the same of others. People all have their give and take, but I always expect as much from others in a relationship as I put in, although it may be in different ways.

I am a Psychological Science and Pre-Law Political Science major at Ball State University. So clearly, I am still a student in college. I have 3 kittens whom I love dearly. They are 6 months old!!! My babies are growing up. :( There names are Calibre, Attia, and Nixi. I am passionate about the environment and human rights, particularly child soldiers. Animal rights is also important to me (although I am not a PETA member). I have decided to try being a vegetarian. Although I've just started, I feel that so far I'm doing well. :)

I am very Christian; it is critical to me that my partner support me in the paramount aspect of my life. I do not believe that people could be in a serious, committed relationship if one is of one religion and the other is of another unless said religions are not very significant to the individuals. Each religion has demands on the people who believe in them, and if the other partner doesn't understand why, for example, I would give away 10% of our income, then we are going to have a lot of troubles. That is why I do not think it could work out. But if you disagree, feel free to get in contact with me.

I also believe that the Bible really doesn't state anything against anyone. I think that any religious book exists for you to analyze what it says about God and then see how that information applies to you. It has nothing to do with judging others. In fact, the Bible specifically says that the Bible is not for judging others. So people who use it as an excuse to persecute others are totally going against the doctrine they are claiming backs them.

Sorry I'm babbling. I'm a bit of a perfectionist, and I want my profile to be complete. And for that to be accomplished, OKCupid demands I spend 1000 words on it. So I thought I'd go a little more indepth on my beliefs. Super sorry if it's boring.

I have some pet peeves. My number one is disrespect. This is a wide-encompassing term that covers anything from yelling at someone in public to insulting to not having manners. But it is seriously a HUGE problem for me, so if that's who you are, please feel free to not expect much from me. And another is spit noises. If people chew with their mouths open, I cannot stay near them.

And I feel that a lot of my awards are incorrect (although I suppose I could be the wrong one...).

I am currently a senior at Ball State University. Unlike most with a single major, I am going to graduate in 4 years with a double major. How you ask? Much suffering. But I have to--after 4 years my scholarships expire. So I never had a choice and instead had 2 1/2 full years of 18 credits (the max) with horrible polisci profs and rollercoaster psych ones. I will graduate in the Spring, which would be really exciting, except that I then plan to go to graduate school. I am going to be a Clinical Psychology major. I am currently interested in testing. Testing, for those that have asked, is how a counselor can get a guideline of what he is dealing with with a patient. It gives them statistical results saying if some aspect of something (say, a personality disorder, IQ, or depression) have a higher manifestation in the client then it does in the average population. This gives the counselor an idea of where to focus therapy toward.

I would like to one day have a serious partner I am married to. I would maybe like to adopt, although I am right now OK with the idea of not having children, too. I am passionate about child soldiers, so i have an idealistic thought floating around my in my head that I would like to adopt a toddler from a war-torn country in Africa, such as Darfur, Sierra Leon, Uganda, or Ghana (Ghana isn't really war-torn, but it takes in a lot of the refugees from the countries that are). I also would not be opposed to adopting a girl from China. I am aware that there are a LOT of children in the United States that need permanent homes. But my feeling is, with all its significant failings, at least in the United States there is a foster care program, while in these 3rd class (and 2nd class in China) countries, there really is no support at all. Orphanages are crammed to the max and run on donations. Children eat about 1 small meal a day. So, although there are quite a few children who need a home here, my feeling is that it is good to also look at 3rd worlds countries for adopt.

I think I would like a ZuChon (or ShiChon) in the future. A ZuChon is a mix between a Shih Tzu and a Bichon Frise. And of course, a Bichon Frise has the poodle hair rather than fur, so its more hypoallergenic and doesn't shed. It does, however, require grooming. I have wanted a Shih Tzu for years, but this just fits better with my lifestyle. Also, a French Bulldog might be nice. It's a great apartment dog and is so weird looking its cute (in my opinion). So perhaps in the future... But right now I am perfectly happy with my kittens. They are my babies and I am a total kitten soccer mom.

writing, grammar, tutoring, being supportive, being responsible, faithfulness, arguing, debating (similar, but different), as a friend told me (since I hadn't thought of it as a positive quality), being able to stand silence, pulling random facts out of nowhere, being empathic (but not sympathetic), liking the geekiest things ever (like comic book movies), being protective of the ones I love, getting annoyed, changing moods quickly (which is a good thing if a moment ago I was mad at you :) ), complaining but still getting it done and well.

my sarcasm and assertiveness -except when making inane decisions. :P-. (i dont actually know, so i assume as much.) i also just got 2 tattoos within the past month, so i havent had the opportunity for many people notice them, but i imagine they are one of the first things noticed.

(tattoos, i have learned, are a great ice breaker. people will always ask about them, and then you find out that the people you least expected to have one do too. just an interesting fact ive discovered.)

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books--When Rabbit Howls, The Sandman series, psychology, fantasy, manga
movies--The Dark Knight, Watchmen (the director's cut is much better in my opinon), most genres
music--alternative, gospel, pop
food--sweets (pie! candy, etc.), Ranch dressing, Dr. Pepper

my kittens, a bed, chapstick (Burt's Bees), my laptop, candy, my friends

book/movies character/plots, my kittens, issues that arise (which are abundant and in never-ending supply)

watching tv at home, chilling with my best friend/roommate, on very rare occasions going out with friends :)

Although I am still a virgin, I have studied an amazing amount of information on sex and could probably answer most questions about it.

you are nearby and interested in meeting with the possibility of a serious relationship. and im not looking for a man as a partner right now, so please stop im-ing me saying that i really just love the cock. i will just block you. and be irritated.