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43 Los Angeles, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:49pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a "go with the flow" type personality, which I guess a lot of guys say..but I do try to stay drama free. I'm sarcastic, down to earth, realistic, supportive, and genuine...

My career is in the exciting field of accounting and finance (there's the sarcasm), and even throw in a bit of IT once in a while..I combat the geeky side with playing sports as well as an artistic side (semi) of drawing and writing (when inspired), and just started playing guitar

I grew up in Chicago and have lived in LA for about 15 years...the weather is amazing, mountains, beach...the traffic, not so much

I love music and like seeing bands live, typically at smaller venues. (Troubador, Largo, Hotel Cafe) but a night at the Greek or the Bowl is always fun too. I also go to a lot of movies and am always up for going to a ball game.

I'm very active and keep in shape - hiking, running, softball and basketball make up my usual activities.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
question often asked by my mother....
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being open minded, listening, and keeping or putting things in perspective,
Excel spreadsheets -
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't look my age
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: love all kinds of music..Wilco, Bob Dylan, Old 97's, Black Crowes, Grateful Dead, Foo Fighters, Ryan Adams, Band of Horses, Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Pearl Jam, and pretty much anything Jack White does...are a few of my favorties, but I'm all over the place

Movies:pulp fiction, big lebowski, fight club, office space, breakfast club, social network, inception, dark knight

TV.: arrested development, freaks and geeks, justified, daily show, colbert report, curb, deadwood, boardwalk empire, game of thrones for anything - Love umami burger, mexican, korean bbq and of course sushi...good food is good food

Books - Don't read a ton, but usually it's books about self improvement, finding inner peace, or a biography..oh, Blink and Outliers were good too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
staying active
good food
an open mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
writing a book of short stories about the dating experiences from this site

how to not spend so much time thinking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
anything from dinner with friends to home with a movie..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
not so private once you get to know me, but i often am in situations that are far too similar to a Seinfeld or Curb episode...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are looking for a great guy, don't like drama, you're laid back, fun, have energy, down to earth
or - If you can explain to me why would you search based on enemy % ? strong believer in opposites attract?