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55 M Sandia Park, NM

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:02am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
First off, I have 3 kids (11,13,16) that I love very much. They live with their mother out of state. I have them in the summer and at Thanksgiving or Christmas. Sorry if this is a problem.

I grew up on the North Side of Chicago. The son of a Beatnik Writer, Jazz Critic Dad & a sunday school teacher mom. I was a precocious child but that didn't last as Rock & Roll stunted my growth in college. I was always athletic, I played football, hockey, & baseball, but never fit in with the jocks. Although I let other football players cheat off me on tests. After college I became a professional musician for 10 years. Got married, move to N.M., had kids, divorced.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, Playing music, raising my kids part time, trying to be a good role model.
I’m really good at
I really am a great guitarist. Also a very good hockey player for my age. Old and slow but always in position.
The first things people usually notice about me
My striking Norwegian good looks or my sometimes self-effacing manner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like Indie Film & Music. For film favorites are Jim Jarmusch & Gus Van Sant. All time favorite film is Dr. Strangelove. For music 16 Horsepower, Flat Duo Jets, Nick Cave, 40's, 50's Blues & Country, Louis Prima. Too much to list.
The six things I could never do without
My kids, music, art, architecture (I have a degree in City Planning), Hockey (hoping to play into my 70's), Chicago Style Pizza ( at the risk of sounding like a snob , the closest good Pan Pizza is Rosati's in Phoenix)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music (Still Playing) & the Tiny House Movement
On a typical Friday night I am
Wondering why more good bands don't come to Abq.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a domineering teenager( I was a jerk) and young adult that became a compassionate human being. Having kids & getting divorced are both enlightening & humbling.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 44–61
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like people who aren't run of the mill.