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56 Sandia Park, NM Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 44–61
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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First off, I have 3 kids (11,13,16) that I love very much. They live with their mother out of state. I have them in the summer and at Thanksgiving or Christmas. Sorry if this is a problem.

I grew up on the North Side of Chicago. The son of a Beatnik Writer, Jazz Critic Dad & a sunday school teacher mom. I was a precocious child but that didn't last as Rock & Roll stunted my growth in college. I was always athletic, I played football, hockey, & baseball, but never fit in with the jocks. Although I let other football players cheat off me on tests. After college I became a professional musician for 10 years. Got married, move to N.M., had kids, divorced.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, Playing music, raising my kids part time, trying to be a good role model.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I really am a great guitarist. Also a very good hockey player for my age. Old and slow but always in position.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My striking Norwegian good looks or my sometimes self-effacing manner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like Indie Film & Music. For film favorites are Jim Jarmusch & Gus Van Sant. All time favorite film is Dr. Strangelove. For music 16 Horsepower, Flat Duo Jets, Nick Cave, 40's, 50's Blues & Country, Louis Prima. Too much to list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, music, art, architecture (I have a degree in City Planning), Hockey (hoping to play into my 70's), Chicago Style Pizza ( at the risk of sounding like a snob , the closest good Pan Pizza is Rosati's in Phoenix)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music (Still Playing) & the Tiny House Movement
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wondering why more good bands don't come to Abq.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was a domineering teenager( I was a jerk) and young adult that became a compassionate human being. Having kids & getting divorced are both enlightening & humbling.
You should message me if
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You like people who aren't run of the mill.