My ex and I are amicable and do whatever is right for our son so that he knows he is loved and valued.
I am a witty, fun person and not into games and drama. I like balance in my life and normally do very well at maintaining it. That being said, I am game for almost anything I love cuddling on the couch on a rainy day, swimming in the ocean or boating on the lake in the summer, skiing and snowmobiling in the winter. Anything from bowling to a black dress event. I Love to dance and often do that while I clean or just to do it ( anywhere really) I like to cook and eat. I enjoy working out because it makes me feel good. I have grown tired if the bar scene. I will go out and have fun at the bar but I by all means do not wish to spend any majority of my time at them.
I am independent, very strong and successful; but I have a very loving heart and a very soft side to me as well and would love to share life with the right man for me. I believe mutual honesty, respect, loyalty, fun,Chemistry, and communication are key to making a relationship work. I am not interested in dating around, once there is a connection I am interested in seeing where things go with that person and that person only...I am looking for someone that thinks that way as well about dating. If you are looking to just hook-up, keep looking and don't waste my time please.
I joke that I am super mom, corp sales girl, and a rock star... Just depends on the day; but there is some truth to that. When I am having fun I don't hold back, when I work I am working to achieve a goal and most often meet it ( I am very competitive) and my son always comes first and we have a blast together! Yes I spoil him ( but in the good way).
I understand a mans need for space... Do you understand a woman's need to feel safe that that space will be filled once youre recharged? If you require weeks of space to recharge and have your own time that's just not for me, I feel connected and cared for in the times we are together. I am not looking to rush anything with anyone, rushing in usually leads to rushing out. Once there is a commitment we discussed and agree upon there is a real relationship, until then we are single and dating. I am looking for the entire package, if you have it and give it...I give back 10 fold.
I enjoy concerts, amusement parks, football games, baseball (my favorite), hockey, a local pub, the club on a very rare occasion , cook outs and bonfires, boating and water sports, big movie buff, music would be rock, country, and almost anything.