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chicelias

24 / F / Straight / Single

Sacramento, California

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NyQuil

Jul 17, 2012

Oh, how you save me time and time again. I chug you and sleep becomes me. Thank you Nyquil for giving me the most random dreams!

Oh, how you save me time and time again. I chug you and sleepbecomes me. Thank you Nyquil for giving me the most randomdreams!

NyQuil

moral development...

May 20, 2010

So, I was thinking today about Kohlberg's theory of moral development and what stage most people (or institutions). Basically, there are three levels according to his theory: Pre-conventional, Conventional, and Post-conventional. Pre-conventional means you base your morality on its direct consequences in relation to you - whether or not you or punished or rewarded; children usually operate at this level, although I would argue so do a lot of adults. Next, there is the Conventional level where morality is based upon a larger sense of what the community sees as right or wrong - on what is conventionally deemed acceptable and it is usually accepted without question. Finally, there is the Post-conventional stage where morality is based upon an internal view of right or wrong not necessarily linked to society's expectations, laws, or consequences. At this stage morality is no longer black or white, nothing is absolute - it is abstract. Apparently very few people ever operate at this level. So, where do you fall?

So, I was thinking today about Kohlberg's theory of moraldevelopment and what stage most people (or institutions).Basically, there are three levels according to his theory:Pre-conventional, Conventional, and Post-conventional.Pre-conventional means you base your morality on its directconsequences in relation to you - whether or not you or punished orrewarded; children usually operate at this level, although I wouldargue so do a lot of adults. Next, there is the Conventional levelwhere morality is based upon a larger sense of what the communitysees as right or wrong - on what isconventionally deemed acceptable and itis usually accepted without question. Finally, thereis the Post-conventional stage where morality is based upon aninternal view of right or wrong not necessarily linked to society'sexpectations, laws, or consequences. At this stage morality is nolonger black or white, nothing is absolute - it is abstract.Apparently very few people ever operate at this level. So, where doyou fall?

moral development...

I hate...

May 14, 2010

when I'm looking at profiles on the home page and realize it's someone I've already visited before. This happens because they change their profile picture often. Now this isn't something I hate about them but really about the situation because it makes me feel like a weirdo. I promise you I am not checking you out every couple of months because I can't get enough - I thought you were new!

This has to be a common feeling. I change my picture a lot too so I don't really care if I see the same people pop up in my visitors thing but I still can't shake off the annoyance...it's like I've been tricked into the looking at the same person's profile over and over and over again [end rant].

when I'm looking at profiles on the home page and realize it'ssomeone I've already visited before. This happens because theychange their profile picture often. Now this isn't something I hateabout them but really about the situation because it makes me feellike a weirdo. I promise you I am not checking you out every coupleof months because I can't get enough - I thought you were new!

This has to be a common feeling. I change my picture a lot tooso I don't really care if I see the same people pop up in myvisitors thing but I still can't shake off theannoyance...it's like I've been tricked into the looking at thesame person's profile over and over and over again [end rant].

I hate...

Don't you just hate when...

Nov 11, 2009

you're tuning your guitar and for some unknown reason your freakin' high e string just pops off?! Because I sure do! I was tuning down two steps - why would it break? I just bought new strings like two months ago - isn't that pretty new? I bought defective strings I guess...

The worst part was that I needed that high e String in order to practice a riff - that was the whole point! AAAAAHHH! This is so frustrating!

you're tuning your guitar and for some unknown reason yourfreakin' high e string just pops off?! Because I sure do! Iwas tuning down two steps - why would it break? I justbought new strings like two months ago - isn't that pretty new? Ibought defective strings I guess...

The worst part was that I needed that high e String in order topractice a riff - that was the whole point! AAAAAHHH! This is sofrustrating!

Don't you just hate when...

I just had the weirdest exchange with someone...

Oct 29, 2009

you be the judge. lol, I'm embarrassed but this is too weird not to post.

[12:12:41 pm]insolubile:Hey I won a comp and my girlfriend gets to punch Tom, but a stranger decides where, so . . . ?

[12:14:22 pm]chicelias:obviously it has to be the balls - sorry tom

[12:15:15 pm]insolubile:Oh God this funny, hang on he wantNo NO Take it back

[12:15:22 pm]insolubile:not funny, not balls

[12:15:40 pm]chicelias:ooookay...the ear? lol

[12:15:54 pm]insolubile:she hates me y

[12:16:03 pm]insolubile:whats wrong with the arm?

[12:16:17 pm]chicelias:just trying to keep it interesting....

[12:16:47 pm]chicelias:the arm is a little cliche

[12:16:58 pm]insolubile:you got to see this

[12:17:22 pm]chicelias:i don't even know what's going on...

[12:17:43 pm]insolubile:Janie kicked him right in the balls - so funny

[12:17:46 pm]chicelias:is this some sort of weird joke thing that you do in order to see what people write or do you really have to punch someone?

[12:17:50 pm]chicelias:lol

[12:17:59 pm]chicelias:i'm sorry :/

[12:18:05 pm]chicelias:i'm sure it was hilarious

[12:18:15 pm]insolubile:can she do it again?

[12:18:43 pm]chicelias:that's up to her - i don't want anymore bad karma

[12:19:06 pm]insolubile:come on, funny. Send you the footage.

[12:19:31 pm]chicelias:you should post it on youtube then

[12:19:42 pm]insolubile:so yeah?

[12:19:57 pm]insolubile:wait, can we drag him out in the hall and do it so the frats see?

[12:20:17 pm]chicelias:don't ask me! i don't want to be a mean bitch...

[12:20:41 pm]insolubile:come on, this guy picks on everyone

[12:20:59 pm]insolubile:I wanted to get back for ages, if you don't say yeah, he can back and get me.

[12:21:04 pm]chicelias:violence isn't the answer, lol...

[12:21:14 pm]insolubile:funny, come on quick

[12:21:20 pm]chicelias:ok!

[12:21:38 pm]chicelias:do it....i hold no responsibility for this, lol!

[12:21:47 pm]insolubile:wait, wait - can we drag him . . . by his balls?

[12:21:50 pm]chicelias:okay, i'm out - have fun kicking tom's ass...

[12:21:59 pm]insolubile:just say yeah

[12:22:24 pm]insolubile:come on, funny - quick

[12:23:04 pm]insolubile:???????

[12:23:39 pm]chicelias:sure, whatever floats your boat....i'm moving on now. bye!

you be the judge. lol, I'm embarrassed but this is too weird notto post.

[12:12:41pm]insolubile:Hey Iwon a comp and my girlfriend gets to punch Tom, but a strangerdecides where, so . . . ?

[12:14:22pm]chicelias:obviouslyit has to be the balls - sorry tom

[12:15:15pm]insolubile:Oh Godthis funny, hang on he wantNo NO Take it back

[12:15:22pm]insolubile:notfunny, not balls

[12:15:40pm]chicelias:ooookay...theear? lol

[12:15:54pm]insolubile:shehates me y

[12:16:03pm]insolubile:whatswrong with the arm?

[12:16:17pm]chicelias:justtrying to keep it interesting....

[12:16:47pm]chicelias:the arm isa little cliche

[12:16:58pm]insolubile:you gotto see this

[12:17:22pm]chicelias:i don'teven know what's going on...

[12:17:43pm]insolubile:Janiekicked him right in the balls - so funny

[12:17:46pm]chicelias:is thissome sort of weird joke thing that you do in order to see whatpeople write or do you really have to punch someone?

[12:17:50pm]chicelias:lol

[12:17:59pm]chicelias:i'm sorry:/

[12:18:05pm]chicelias:i'm sureit was hilarious

[12:18:15pm]insolubile:can shedo it again?

[12:18:43pm]chicelias:that's upto her - i don't want anymore bad karma

[12:19:06pm]insolubile:come on,funny. Send you the footage.

[12:19:31pm]chicelias:you shouldpost it on youtube then

[12:19:42pm]insolubile:soyeah?

[12:19:57pm]insolubile:wait,can we drag him out in the hall and do it so the frats see?

[12:20:17pm]chicelias:don't askme! i don't want to be a mean bitch...

[12:20:41pm]insolubile:come on,this guy picks on everyone

[12:20:59pm]insolubile:I wantedto get back for ages, if you don't say yeah, he can back and getme.

[12:21:04pm]chicelias:violenceisn't the answer, lol...

[12:21:14pm]insolubile:funny,come on quick

[12:21:20pm]chicelias:ok!

[12:21:38pm]chicelias:do it....ihold no responsibility for this, lol!

[12:21:47pm]insolubile:wait,wait - can we drag him . . . by his balls?

[12:21:50pm]chicelias:okay, i'mout - have fun kicking tom's ass...

[12:21:59pm]insolubile:just sayyeah

[12:22:24pm]insolubile:come on,funny - quick

[12:23:04pm]insolubile:???????

[12:23:39pm]chicelias:sure,whatever floats your boat....i'm moving on now. bye!

I just had the weirdest exchange with someone...

I've decided on my Halloween costume...

Oct 27, 2009

...and it kind of sucks. I know when people see it they will think, "Wow, you've put no effort into that at all!" Well, I don't really want to spend a fortune on some detailed, period piece, or spend hours in JoAnn's fabrics crafting the perfect costume, or even a lot of mental thought dreaming up a truly funny and ironic costume that everyone will remember. I've decided. I'm going to be a mime. Minimal effort and instant recognition. It's perfect.

...and it kind of sucks. I know when people see it they willthink, "Wow, you've put no effort into that at all!" Well, I don'treally want to spend a fortune on some detailed, period piece, orspend hours in JoAnn's fabrics crafting the perfectcostume, or even a lot of mental thought dreaming upa truly funny and ironic costume that everyone will remember.I've decided. I'm going to be a mime. Minimal effort and instantrecognition. It's perfect.

I've decided on my Halloween costume...

so I got my lip pierced...

Oct 22, 2009

at Sub-q during my lunch break, and I must say their piercer is kind of a douchebag. I can't really decribe why, at least not very well. He kept saying pseudo-philisophical stuff when I just wanted to get my lip pierced and be back in class before 1:30. Anyway, second time's the charm - maybe this time I'll keep it longer than 3 days.

at Sub-q during my lunch break, and I must say theirpiercer is kind of a douchebag. I can't really decribe why, atleast not very well. He kept saying pseudo-philisophical stuffwhen I just wanted to get my lip pierced and be back in classbefore 1:30. Anyway, second time's the charm - maybe this time I'llkeep it longer than 3 days.

so I got my lip pierced...